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Trying to do the right thing - but mentally exhausted
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 731427" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>He doesn't care about his education, you do. That won't make him change his ways. Since he isn't interested in getting an education so that will never make him hit your rock bottom.</p><p></p><p>If he uses drugs what makes you think he is safe in your home? He goes out, drives impaired in your car and meets his dealers and dangerous friends. My daughter lived at home but went out and was assaulted in a park. We can't give them a safe haven if their friends are unsafe. it's impossible.</p><p></p><p>Also he can bring these dangerous criminals into your house when you are not home, you can be busted and it's in YOUR house! You are then involved in harboring illegsl behavior.</p><p></p><p>Keeping him home to save him will fail. We tried it. It's all about who they hang around with.</p><p></p><p>Nowhere is safe regarding drugs and other illegal activities. And it could get you and others who live with him into legal trouble.</p><p></p><p>As for you being a role model he will copy, I am sure by your post that he has watched you being kind all his life. But young men his age don't copy us, they copy their friends. If they don't have e good friends, it's not positive.</p><p></p><p>Good luck!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 731427, member: 1550"] He doesn't care about his education, you do. That won't make him change his ways. Since he isn't interested in getting an education so that will never make him hit your rock bottom. If he uses drugs what makes you think he is safe in your home? He goes out, drives impaired in your car and meets his dealers and dangerous friends. My daughter lived at home but went out and was assaulted in a park. We can't give them a safe haven if their friends are unsafe. it's impossible. Also he can bring these dangerous criminals into your house when you are not home, you can be busted and it's in YOUR house! You are then involved in harboring illegsl behavior. Keeping him home to save him will fail. We tried it. It's all about who they hang around with. Nowhere is safe regarding drugs and other illegal activities. And it could get you and others who live with him into legal trouble. As for you being a role model he will copy, I am sure by your post that he has watched you being kind all his life. But young men his age don't copy us, they copy their friends. If they don't have e good friends, it's not positive. Good luck! [/QUOTE]
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