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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 130186" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Sometimes our kids just can't cope with "winning". I think then they presume that we will expect that behavior all the time.</p><p> </p><p>Sounds to me like you need a new method of handling this - one where it doesn't **** out all YOUR energy. I also think that biting your leg needs a delayed consequence, one done in a way sure to worry your son. </p><p> </p><p>I have personally been there done that, and I know what helped for our family was Love & Logic Parenting. It gave the tools to handle what my Aspergers/Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)/anxiety ridden child was dealing with. It also made parenting LESS STRESSFUL because I knew in advance much of what husband and I would do.</p><p> </p><p>I strongly recommend you go to <a href="http://www.loveandlogic.com" target="_blank">www.loveandlogic.com</a> and read all you can of the free stuff. For delayed conseqences there is a wonderful free audio download. Then if it feels like something you can/want to handle, order a book or 3. I think the audiotapes and CDs are great - you can listen to them in the car or wherever you are AWAY from the kids and you get a great boost.</p><p> </p><p>I don't get ANYTHING from this recommendation, and if you never decide to buy that is fine. If you read all this and think it is full of hooey, that is OK to. But it saved my family.</p><p> </p><p>IF you decide to buy, you can come back to conductdisorders.com and click through here to Amazon. This gives the site a little bit of revenue, and is much appreciated.</p><p> </p><p>Sorry it was so tough a night. </p><p> </p><p>Sending hugs,</p><p> </p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 130186, member: 1233"] Sometimes our kids just can't cope with "winning". I think then they presume that we will expect that behavior all the time. Sounds to me like you need a new method of handling this - one where it doesn't **** out all YOUR energy. I also think that biting your leg needs a delayed consequence, one done in a way sure to worry your son. I have personally been there done that, and I know what helped for our family was Love & Logic Parenting. It gave the tools to handle what my Aspergers/Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)/anxiety ridden child was dealing with. It also made parenting LESS STRESSFUL because I knew in advance much of what husband and I would do. I strongly recommend you go to [URL="http://www.loveandlogic.com"]www.loveandlogic.com[/URL] and read all you can of the free stuff. For delayed conseqences there is a wonderful free audio download. Then if it feels like something you can/want to handle, order a book or 3. I think the audiotapes and CDs are great - you can listen to them in the car or wherever you are AWAY from the kids and you get a great boost. I don't get ANYTHING from this recommendation, and if you never decide to buy that is fine. If you read all this and think it is full of hooey, that is OK to. But it saved my family. IF you decide to buy, you can come back to conductdisorders.com and click through here to Amazon. This gives the site a little bit of revenue, and is much appreciated. Sorry it was so tough a night. Sending hugs, Susie [/QUOTE]
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