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Trying to make a plaln for difficult child is proving to be more than difficult
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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 579654" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>Hi RM,</p><p></p><p>It is a tough place to be and obviously you love and want to help your difficult child. I think though that he figure out what he wants to do and how to do it, and then let him ask you for help and you and husband can decide what you are willing to do. You really cant solve this for him and it sounds like that is what you are trying to do. I understand that as I have also done that a lot with my gig... but really what does your difficult child want? Is there any family program or help from the prison. I know the prison near where I live has a program that works with the families and i believe helps inmates figure out whats next after incarceration. I suggest you find out if there is anything like that at the prison he is at....and maybe find out if there is someone there who will help him figure out what to do next. I think our adult sons do better if they start figuring things out on their own, with good guidance from others who are not their mothers. And let us just love them.</p><p></p><p>I know this is all way easier said than done.</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 579654, member: 15801"] Hi RM, It is a tough place to be and obviously you love and want to help your difficult child. I think though that he figure out what he wants to do and how to do it, and then let him ask you for help and you and husband can decide what you are willing to do. You really cant solve this for him and it sounds like that is what you are trying to do. I understand that as I have also done that a lot with my gig... but really what does your difficult child want? Is there any family program or help from the prison. I know the prison near where I live has a program that works with the families and i believe helps inmates figure out whats next after incarceration. I suggest you find out if there is anything like that at the prison he is at....and maybe find out if there is someone there who will help him figure out what to do next. I think our adult sons do better if they start figuring things out on their own, with good guidance from others who are not their mothers. And let us just love them. I know this is all way easier said than done. TL [/QUOTE]
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