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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 516725" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Make sure you have an attorney to help you.</p><p></p><p>Bunny, it is COMMON for the parents to be threatened this way. Most parents take the kid home and are nto heard of again because they figure out a way to handle things on their own. WE were told that CpS would take my easy child's if we didn't pick Wiz up from the hospital. They also told us taht if we "allowed" wiz to hurt Jess again then they would take the easy child's AND charge us with child endangering for having him in the home. But CPS would give us NO services or help. Wiz was in a psychiatric hospital for 4 months when they threatened all of this. After the 1st visit with Wiz the social worker (sw) told us he was "the next Hannibal Lector" but her written report talked about what a sweet boy he was. She interviewed Jess at school and first was angry because the principal stayed in the room and then she convinced Jess taht Wiz tried to kill her in her sleep BECAUSE SHE DESERVED IT!! i am NOT joking or exaggerating and it has caused huge problems for Jess emotionally. This sw was so awful that the principal ended the interview early AND filed formal complaints against her. This principal has a LOT of influence in our area and it really went a long way to helping us when she did this. The sw was very new, NOT stable emotionally, and got fired because the principal's complaints. </p><p></p><p>It was AWFUL because we thought CPS was there to protect all our kids. But it is cheaper to house the 2 easy child kids than to house and care for one difficult child kid. THAT is the reality and is why they often threaten parents with charges, removal of the other kids, and so many other awful things.</p><p></p><p>in my opinion always have an atty with you if you need to go through this.</p><p></p><p>notsohappy, what does your daughter think of you surrendering custody of her? I know it is a terribly hard thing to survive, but she seems to be in a LOT of pain and not coping with it well. I hope taht whatever happens it results in all of you getting the help that the family and difficult child need. This is such a terribly hard situation for the survivors and their families.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 516725, member: 1233"] Make sure you have an attorney to help you. Bunny, it is COMMON for the parents to be threatened this way. Most parents take the kid home and are nto heard of again because they figure out a way to handle things on their own. WE were told that CpS would take my easy child's if we didn't pick Wiz up from the hospital. They also told us taht if we "allowed" wiz to hurt Jess again then they would take the easy child's AND charge us with child endangering for having him in the home. But CPS would give us NO services or help. Wiz was in a psychiatric hospital for 4 months when they threatened all of this. After the 1st visit with Wiz the social worker (sw) told us he was "the next Hannibal Lector" but her written report talked about what a sweet boy he was. She interviewed Jess at school and first was angry because the principal stayed in the room and then she convinced Jess taht Wiz tried to kill her in her sleep BECAUSE SHE DESERVED IT!! i am NOT joking or exaggerating and it has caused huge problems for Jess emotionally. This sw was so awful that the principal ended the interview early AND filed formal complaints against her. This principal has a LOT of influence in our area and it really went a long way to helping us when she did this. The sw was very new, NOT stable emotionally, and got fired because the principal's complaints. It was AWFUL because we thought CPS was there to protect all our kids. But it is cheaper to house the 2 easy child kids than to house and care for one difficult child kid. THAT is the reality and is why they often threaten parents with charges, removal of the other kids, and so many other awful things. in my opinion always have an atty with you if you need to go through this. notsohappy, what does your daughter think of you surrendering custody of her? I know it is a terribly hard thing to survive, but she seems to be in a LOT of pain and not coping with it well. I hope taht whatever happens it results in all of you getting the help that the family and difficult child need. This is such a terribly hard situation for the survivors and their families. [/QUOTE]
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