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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 285428" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Never EVER doubt your instincts. They exist not only to help and guide you but also for the very basic biological purpose of protecting your young.</p><p></p><p>I think becoming a friend on her Facebook would be useful. As Janet said, you get to see EVERYTHING. Wiz tried to get around me on it a couple years ago so I created a fake account and he included it as a friend. He wasn't doing anything wrong = THAT TIME= but he did have some things that showed obsessions creeping in. It let us get help for him before he had a really big problem.</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry she is doing this. I had a neighbor across the breezeway in my college apartment who had a stable of girls. He lived with one, but had 10 others at any given time. It really is NOT a life you want for your daughter.</p><p></p><p>If you even suspect this, the sad first thing you have to do is go buy the biggest box of condoms you can. Put it in her room, and in her purses if you can. HIV is not the only disease - hepatitis C is supposed to be even more prevalent.</p><p></p><p>It is better to provide the condoms than have her risk not surviving this. At least in my opinion it is.</p><p></p><p>You also want to have a frank and open chat about things if you can. Make sure she knows that even "just oral" can cause you to be very sick. </p><p></p><p>Insist she go and get a drug screen and std screen. The std is most important. </p><p></p><p>Ihope and pray you are not right - but it sure sounds like you are. I also think that deep down she wants you to put brakes on her - there is NO other reason she would flaunt leaving dressed like that and then flaunt the money right in your face.</p><p></p><p>There is no way she cleaned. Not that I can see - I never met a guy who would have even cared if the room was cleaned - or cared enough to pay $30 for it.</p><p></p><p>I hope and pray I am 1000000&#37; wrong. </p><p></p><p>Many many hugs to you and husband and her. This will be so rough to work through. Make SURE she gets some help esp after she stops doing this - there will be a LOT of guilt and self loathing.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 285428, member: 1233"] Never EVER doubt your instincts. They exist not only to help and guide you but also for the very basic biological purpose of protecting your young. I think becoming a friend on her Facebook would be useful. As Janet said, you get to see EVERYTHING. Wiz tried to get around me on it a couple years ago so I created a fake account and he included it as a friend. He wasn't doing anything wrong = THAT TIME= but he did have some things that showed obsessions creeping in. It let us get help for him before he had a really big problem. I am so sorry she is doing this. I had a neighbor across the breezeway in my college apartment who had a stable of girls. He lived with one, but had 10 others at any given time. It really is NOT a life you want for your daughter. If you even suspect this, the sad first thing you have to do is go buy the biggest box of condoms you can. Put it in her room, and in her purses if you can. HIV is not the only disease - hepatitis C is supposed to be even more prevalent. It is better to provide the condoms than have her risk not surviving this. At least in my opinion it is. You also want to have a frank and open chat about things if you can. Make sure she knows that even "just oral" can cause you to be very sick. Insist she go and get a drug screen and std screen. The std is most important. Ihope and pray you are not right - but it sure sounds like you are. I also think that deep down she wants you to put brakes on her - there is NO other reason she would flaunt leaving dressed like that and then flaunt the money right in your face. There is no way she cleaned. Not that I can see - I never met a guy who would have even cared if the room was cleaned - or cared enough to pay $30 for it. I hope and pray I am 1000000% wrong. Many many hugs to you and husband and her. This will be so rough to work through. Make SURE she gets some help esp after she stops doing this - there will be a LOT of guilt and self loathing. [/QUOTE]
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