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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 285439" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: royalblue">I am friends with her on facebook, but there's not much activity on her page. Her primary means of communicating with her friends is via cell or through private messages on facebook. I think she is also on MyLife now - I could check. There is another one like that I think. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: royalblue">Last week sometime I saw on her dresser a paper with all her passwords written down. I am tempted to log on as her and just see....but you see, in my practice to detach lovingly from difficult child, I am having a difficult time forging ahead.</span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: royalblue">There is a large part of me that says go for it and try to nip it in the bud, but another part of me that says allow her to suffer the natural consequences of her actions. In this case, it would be all her friend's dropping her if they found out, it could mean disease or infection, it could mean her escalating into a full fledged business for her, it could mean a lot of things. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: royalblue">H has been asking me for months "If she has no job and we're not giving her money, where is she getting gas and coffee and cigarette money from?" and I just shrug because I haven't a clue. easy child gave her money for helping her with her cleaning job, and also once in a while would give her $5 for cigarettes, but nothing substantial. It's beginning to make sense now. I am afraid to tell H of my suspicions. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: royalblue">On top of all this, we're still concerned with her weight loss. She weighed in at 98 lbs at her last check with the Dr, down 3 lbs from last time. </span></span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: royalblue">Thanks for your support. I hope I'm wrong, but my gut is telling me otherwise.</span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 285439, member: 2211"] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=royalblue]I am friends with her on facebook, but there's not much activity on her page. Her primary means of communicating with her friends is via cell or through private messages on facebook. I think she is also on MyLife now - I could check. There is another one like that I think. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=royalblue][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=royalblue]Last week sometime I saw on her dresser a paper with all her passwords written down. I am tempted to log on as her and just see....but you see, in my practice to detach lovingly from difficult child, I am having a difficult time forging ahead.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=royalblue][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=royalblue]There is a large part of me that says go for it and try to nip it in the bud, but another part of me that says allow her to suffer the natural consequences of her actions. In this case, it would be all her friend's dropping her if they found out, it could mean disease or infection, it could mean her escalating into a full fledged business for her, it could mean a lot of things. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=royalblue][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=royalblue]H has been asking me for months "If she has no job and we're not giving her money, where is she getting gas and coffee and cigarette money from?" and I just shrug because I haven't a clue. easy child gave her money for helping her with her cleaning job, and also once in a while would give her $5 for cigarettes, but nothing substantial. It's beginning to make sense now. I am afraid to tell H of my suspicions. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=royalblue][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=royalblue]On top of all this, we're still concerned with her weight loss. She weighed in at 98 lbs at her last check with the Dr, down 3 lbs from last time. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=royalblue][/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=royalblue]Thanks for your support. I hope I'm wrong, but my gut is telling me otherwise.[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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