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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 285487" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>In light of her having money for smokes, gas, etc... when she isn't working and hasn't gotten money from you, well, chances are high that you are not mistaken.</p><p></p><p>The weight loss could be drugs, could also be self-loathing because she hates what she is doing, but not enough to motivate her to find a real job.</p><p></p><p>Chances are the loser is at least asking her to "see" his friends. It seems to be the way pimps develop a girl, at least it is in this college town. </p><p></p><p>I know you are trying to detach. I would still get those passwords and investigate. I wouldn't be able to stop myself. After all, she IS living in YOUR home, subsidized by YOUR money. If she is turning tricks, maybe she should go and live on what she makes. I know my parents would have kicked me out in a New York Minute if I ever turned a trick. Prostitution is just so horrible for every aspect of a woman - heart, body, mind and soul.</p><p></p><p>You probably need to speak with H, much as you dread it, to figure out what you will and won't tolerate. I would also do the drug test and doctor visit for the STD check and doctor lecture. (When Wiz told me he had been irresponsibly intimate at 14 he had to go to the doctor for a FULL checkup and all testing the doctor thought necessary. The doctor gave a GREAT wake-up call lecture also.)</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry. She may feel unable or unworthy of getting out of that life, or of more than that life. She also may regard it as a quick buck. Sadly many young people don't think of it as a big deal, at least outwardly. So they dig in deep by hiding their shame. And it is very very common for girls (and guys) to turn tricks for drugs. There was one episode of Intervention where the girl told her parents and GRANDMA that she had to go meet a guy for this. She rubbed it in their faces - "You won't give me money for drugs so I HAVE to do it."</p><p></p><p>PLEASE don't EVER buy that song and dance. There are organizations that help girls who have fallen into this life. If I can find any links I will send them to you.</p><p></p><p>I hope you have a therapist you can talk to. I am sorry this is even a possibility.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 285487, member: 1233"] In light of her having money for smokes, gas, etc... when she isn't working and hasn't gotten money from you, well, chances are high that you are not mistaken. The weight loss could be drugs, could also be self-loathing because she hates what she is doing, but not enough to motivate her to find a real job. Chances are the loser is at least asking her to "see" his friends. It seems to be the way pimps develop a girl, at least it is in this college town. I know you are trying to detach. I would still get those passwords and investigate. I wouldn't be able to stop myself. After all, she IS living in YOUR home, subsidized by YOUR money. If she is turning tricks, maybe she should go and live on what she makes. I know my parents would have kicked me out in a New York Minute if I ever turned a trick. Prostitution is just so horrible for every aspect of a woman - heart, body, mind and soul. You probably need to speak with H, much as you dread it, to figure out what you will and won't tolerate. I would also do the drug test and doctor visit for the STD check and doctor lecture. (When Wiz told me he had been irresponsibly intimate at 14 he had to go to the doctor for a FULL checkup and all testing the doctor thought necessary. The doctor gave a GREAT wake-up call lecture also.) I am so sorry. She may feel unable or unworthy of getting out of that life, or of more than that life. She also may regard it as a quick buck. Sadly many young people don't think of it as a big deal, at least outwardly. So they dig in deep by hiding their shame. And it is very very common for girls (and guys) to turn tricks for drugs. There was one episode of Intervention where the girl told her parents and GRANDMA that she had to go meet a guy for this. She rubbed it in their faces - "You won't give me money for drugs so I HAVE to do it." PLEASE don't EVER buy that song and dance. There are organizations that help girls who have fallen into this life. If I can find any links I will send them to you. I hope you have a therapist you can talk to. I am sorry this is even a possibility. [/QUOTE]
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