I agree with Linda. My difficult child had terrible, out of control rages at ages 10-11 which stopped with interventions and maturity. It's a good thing for me because at 16 he's got me by 6 inches and 120lbs. He's known for years that he is physically stronger than me. In middle school he still had aggressive tendencies but not towards me. When he was feeling full of himself he would taunt with me with this. I told him flat out, if he ever went off on me again like he used to, I'd have no choice but to call the police. I meant it but thankfully I never had to prove it.
I would focus on the present and just take one day at a time.
