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uggh...i couldnt hold back my words to their dad...
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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 489548"><p>buddy,</p><p> Not my issue, well i meant that he always tell me that I am not aloud to tell his family,friends,my family,my friends,our kids and the other mother of his kids where he is at,who he has over,( bad crowd ) where he works,who he see's, if he was drinking, and everything else that has to do with him.He says for me not to answer the door or phone or tell them "I don't know" or he was dead.When he does finally talk to his family,like now, he then tells them it was all my fault and didn't know why I was being such a bit%&. I only find these things out most of the time by researching,"catching him" or whenever he actually has the kids, they sometimes tell me, or his women call. I do see these things being my business because my children have to be around this lifestyle.The last 3 extreme serious relationships (1 living with=drug addict and two violent marriages-he was in jail for both and he never charged them),the drinking and his address, yes I have the right to know for the safety of our kids. Oh NO way was I trying to get back with him! We have been broken up since I was pregnant with my now 5 year old,and will never ever ,ever even do anything with him again! Yes, he's married, that doesn't stop him, one of the many reasons we ended things. The other mother and I took him to court to stop him drinking 12 hours before visitation and during,no women 8pm-8am( married ok but he cheats and in between his marriages the rule applies), and so many other "rules". He gives fake names of men and women who he is around and the list goes on. He is on his 4th marriage now.....I was trying to write clearly yesterday but when I typed here, the words wouldn't correct,I'm sorry! Sadly, I cant cut ties with him because of our kids. He still has legal rights and the courts say just live with it until something bad happens to them! Lovely huh?Thanks!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 489548"] buddy, Not my issue, well i meant that he always tell me that I am not aloud to tell his family,friends,my family,my friends,our kids and the other mother of his kids where he is at,who he has over,( bad crowd ) where he works,who he see's, if he was drinking, and everything else that has to do with him.He says for me not to answer the door or phone or tell them "I don't know" or he was dead.When he does finally talk to his family,like now, he then tells them it was all my fault and didn't know why I was being such a bit%&. I only find these things out most of the time by researching,"catching him" or whenever he actually has the kids, they sometimes tell me, or his women call. I do see these things being my business because my children have to be around this lifestyle.The last 3 extreme serious relationships (1 living with=drug addict and two violent marriages-he was in jail for both and he never charged them),the drinking and his address, yes I have the right to know for the safety of our kids. Oh NO way was I trying to get back with him! We have been broken up since I was pregnant with my now 5 year old,and will never ever ,ever even do anything with him again! Yes, he's married, that doesn't stop him, one of the many reasons we ended things. The other mother and I took him to court to stop him drinking 12 hours before visitation and during,no women 8pm-8am( married ok but he cheats and in between his marriages the rule applies), and so many other "rules". He gives fake names of men and women who he is around and the list goes on. He is on his 4th marriage now.....I was trying to write clearly yesterday but when I typed here, the words wouldn't correct,I'm sorry! Sadly, I cant cut ties with him because of our kids. He still has legal rights and the courts say just live with it until something bad happens to them! Lovely huh?Thanks! [/QUOTE]
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