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<blockquote data-quote="Alttlgabby" data-source="post: 246318" data-attributes="member: 6786"><p>Thanks guys! I am just so frustrated at times because I "don't" know what is wrong with her so I can't deal with it on "her level" at all. I don't know if it Fetal Alcohol Effects (FAE), Aspergers, ADHD, ODD, etc... UGH.. and I could just put my hands around her Mom's throat right now and just choke her for not being responsible the last 6 years she has her! Or the other kids for the that matter. To make matters worse, the state of AZ has ALLOWED their older brother to live with Mom again. Ummm, dummies.. the girls were taken in October 2007 for failure to protect, and because she was found at the bottom of their apartment steps passed out from drinking, and their brother was sent off to live with the grandmother who had him for 5 months and didn't place him in school that entire time. I got him and he was in school within 3 days, and placed in a grade higher due to his age! Az wanted to put him in 7th at age 14!!!!!! Unfortunately, I could not allow him to terrorize people in my house like he was doing and took him to his sisters, who in turn finally told him he was no longer welcome at her house either due to his behavior. Somehow, the rest of us are at fault according to him, and he takes no fault at all in his being "kicked out" of two homes. I thank goodness that I have the girls now and can somehow lead them in the right direction to become good productive adults. Thankfully, now the girls are with responsible adults who truly care about them and their wellbeing and want to truly help them. The girls father, my brother, has his own unique set of problems. Alcoholic, drug addict, schizo?, ADHD definately, never takes responsibility for anything that ever happens to him. I cannot wait to find out what is happening with J so that we an adjust her punishments, etc, to whatever seems to be wrong with her and deal these things our appropriately and get her whatever help she needs. She truly is not a bad kid. She just needs guidance and behavioral guidance.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Alttlgabby, post: 246318, member: 6786"] Thanks guys! I am just so frustrated at times because I "don't" know what is wrong with her so I can't deal with it on "her level" at all. I don't know if it Fetal Alcohol Effects (FAE), Aspergers, ADHD, ODD, etc... UGH.. and I could just put my hands around her Mom's throat right now and just choke her for not being responsible the last 6 years she has her! Or the other kids for the that matter. To make matters worse, the state of AZ has ALLOWED their older brother to live with Mom again. Ummm, dummies.. the girls were taken in October 2007 for failure to protect, and because she was found at the bottom of their apartment steps passed out from drinking, and their brother was sent off to live with the grandmother who had him for 5 months and didn't place him in school that entire time. I got him and he was in school within 3 days, and placed in a grade higher due to his age! Az wanted to put him in 7th at age 14!!!!!! Unfortunately, I could not allow him to terrorize people in my house like he was doing and took him to his sisters, who in turn finally told him he was no longer welcome at her house either due to his behavior. Somehow, the rest of us are at fault according to him, and he takes no fault at all in his being "kicked out" of two homes. I thank goodness that I have the girls now and can somehow lead them in the right direction to become good productive adults. Thankfully, now the girls are with responsible adults who truly care about them and their wellbeing and want to truly help them. The girls father, my brother, has his own unique set of problems. Alcoholic, drug addict, schizo?, ADHD definately, never takes responsibility for anything that ever happens to him. I cannot wait to find out what is happening with J so that we an adjust her punishments, etc, to whatever seems to be wrong with her and deal these things our appropriately and get her whatever help she needs. She truly is not a bad kid. She just needs guidance and behavioral guidance. [/QUOTE]
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