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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 319416" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Thank you all so much for the support and information. Typically what I do when I see high-stress situations coming is to start looking at options and gathering as much info as I can so that once it actually "hits", I can make an informed decision instead of panicing because I have no clue what to do. I guess that's the way I'm trying to approach this , too. I figure I can gather more info this week, form a plan as best as possible if the job in HI doesn't come thru, and if I don't hear from HI within a week, start pursuing that plan. I'll try to pursue it in a way that allows me to still go to HI should they end up confirming the job. Of course, the hope is that they will give me a definite answer one way or another this week. I'm not holding my breath on that because they haven't sent me somewhere for a drug test yet and I'm concerned that they forgot it, then that will put things off another 2 weeks.</p><p></p><p>I've gotten things fairly well planned out- as much as possible- if I do get that job. If I don't, well, I wrote a list of "desparate actions" before and I'll have to expand on that and choose one. I keep hearing that the job market in my field probably won't pick up until at least next summer and that has me more worried than anything. And, I checked out the rankings of states as far as unemployment rates and states suffering the most and all the states around me are in worse shape than the one I'm in. That doesn't make me feel any better either. God bless those living in states in worse shape than this one- I don't know how some people are surviving</p><p></p><p>I'm mailing out a letter to Department of Juvenile Justice tomorrow to see if they will coordinate difficult child's release date with a move to HI, while I can still honestly say that I expect this to come thru soon. That way, I can get some possibility for it before I learn (if this happens) that it didn't come thru. Since I need a legitimate address in order for difficult child to be released to me, really my biggest fear is living in a shelter and not getting custody of him back. The second worst is getting him back, then both of us having to live out of a shelter. Between that option and living with my mother, even temporarily, well, I don't know whhich one is worse and would be more damaging to difficult child.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 319416, member: 3699"] Thank you all so much for the support and information. Typically what I do when I see high-stress situations coming is to start looking at options and gathering as much info as I can so that once it actually "hits", I can make an informed decision instead of panicing because I have no clue what to do. I guess that's the way I'm trying to approach this , too. I figure I can gather more info this week, form a plan as best as possible if the job in HI doesn't come thru, and if I don't hear from HI within a week, start pursuing that plan. I'll try to pursue it in a way that allows me to still go to HI should they end up confirming the job. Of course, the hope is that they will give me a definite answer one way or another this week. I'm not holding my breath on that because they haven't sent me somewhere for a drug test yet and I'm concerned that they forgot it, then that will put things off another 2 weeks. I've gotten things fairly well planned out- as much as possible- if I do get that job. If I don't, well, I wrote a list of "desparate actions" before and I'll have to expand on that and choose one. I keep hearing that the job market in my field probably won't pick up until at least next summer and that has me more worried than anything. And, I checked out the rankings of states as far as unemployment rates and states suffering the most and all the states around me are in worse shape than the one I'm in. That doesn't make me feel any better either. God bless those living in states in worse shape than this one- I don't know how some people are surviving I'm mailing out a letter to Department of Juvenile Justice tomorrow to see if they will coordinate difficult child's release date with a move to HI, while I can still honestly say that I expect this to come thru soon. That way, I can get some possibility for it before I learn (if this happens) that it didn't come thru. Since I need a legitimate address in order for difficult child to be released to me, really my biggest fear is living in a shelter and not getting custody of him back. The second worst is getting him back, then both of us having to live out of a shelter. Between that option and living with my mother, even temporarily, well, I don't know whhich one is worse and would be more damaging to difficult child. [/QUOTE]
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