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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 444292" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Well, I decided that this very well might have been turned into a chaotic issue when it didn't need to be by the owner. It seems highly possible to me that the assistant, not being used to doing the coordinating between the owner and tenant, thought she was just handling things the way she should by asking me to call so we could schedule, then when I threw out a couple of options, she decided to just have the owner call me directly. Fine. But, if the owner had it in her mind that what she really wanted was to tell me when she'd be there (beyond me then why assistant didn't have a date and time set to tell me), and the owner rec'd a message back from asst saying to call me directly to schedule, owner might have assumed I was demanding that and shoots nasty email off to realtor. All I know is that it's opbvious to me that the mis-communication was between at least 2 of those 3 parties and not me because I went back and listened to my original message from asst again.</p><p></p><p>But I am POd about it (being yelled at and accused of acting like I own the house- not the part about the owner wanting or needing to come by) and felt it best not to be there at the house when it would only be me, owner, and her boyfriend. And I really didn't want to shut my dogs up in the bathroom and thus, hear them barking over it, for the entire time they were there. So, I cleaned house this morning, printed out copy of my statement sent to realtor and taped it in iinside of the front door with "owner's copy" written on it, packed a little bag and the dogs and drove to the town where difficult child is in Department of Juvenile Justice and got a cheap hotel room for the night. I can go see difficult child in ther morning without having to drive hours first, come back to hotel to get dogs and check out and be back home tomorrow afternoon. I can get a couple of things accomplished here that I needed to do this weekend so tomorrow afternoon, I'll be "home" and can do laundry and grocery shopping then. Really I think I needed to get away and it feels good to have the dogs and myself a little closer to difficult child tonight, even though he's five miles away. I visited last weekend so he'll be surprised to see me tomorrow. I just hope he didn't get isolation time for that fight a week or so ago, then he only gets 30 mins of visitation.</p><p></p><p>Back to this situation- I'm not going to allow anyone to yell at me today. Period. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p><p></p><p>PS I brought my laptop but not my separate keyboard so typing is not that easy!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 444292, member: 3699"] Well, I decided that this very well might have been turned into a chaotic issue when it didn't need to be by the owner. It seems highly possible to me that the assistant, not being used to doing the coordinating between the owner and tenant, thought she was just handling things the way she should by asking me to call so we could schedule, then when I threw out a couple of options, she decided to just have the owner call me directly. Fine. But, if the owner had it in her mind that what she really wanted was to tell me when she'd be there (beyond me then why assistant didn't have a date and time set to tell me), and the owner rec'd a message back from asst saying to call me directly to schedule, owner might have assumed I was demanding that and shoots nasty email off to realtor. All I know is that it's opbvious to me that the mis-communication was between at least 2 of those 3 parties and not me because I went back and listened to my original message from asst again. But I am POd about it (being yelled at and accused of acting like I own the house- not the part about the owner wanting or needing to come by) and felt it best not to be there at the house when it would only be me, owner, and her boyfriend. And I really didn't want to shut my dogs up in the bathroom and thus, hear them barking over it, for the entire time they were there. So, I cleaned house this morning, printed out copy of my statement sent to realtor and taped it in iinside of the front door with "owner's copy" written on it, packed a little bag and the dogs and drove to the town where difficult child is in Department of Juvenile Justice and got a cheap hotel room for the night. I can go see difficult child in ther morning without having to drive hours first, come back to hotel to get dogs and check out and be back home tomorrow afternoon. I can get a couple of things accomplished here that I needed to do this weekend so tomorrow afternoon, I'll be "home" and can do laundry and grocery shopping then. Really I think I needed to get away and it feels good to have the dogs and myself a little closer to difficult child tonight, even though he's five miles away. I visited last weekend so he'll be surprised to see me tomorrow. I just hope he didn't get isolation time for that fight a week or so ago, then he only gets 30 mins of visitation. Back to this situation- I'm not going to allow anyone to yell at me today. Period. :) PS I brought my laptop but not my separate keyboard so typing is not that easy! [/QUOTE]
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