Hi Jencita, so sorry I missed this post. As you can see, you are not alone. I am so sorry you have to go through this, and so sorry for the rest of your family. Wow, you have an entire family of G'sfg! I don't know how you do it.
You've gotten some good advice here.
One thing I'm wondering is if you can change the family of medications he's on... maybe go from Prozac to Effexor, because of the anxiety issues. (I just know too many people who space out on too much Prozac.) You've really got to have a much more hands-on approach with-his pediatrician and psychiatric.
I hope you can take some time out to read the books recommended here, and just be alone for a couple of hrs in a coffee shop or something. It will really help.
Good luck and stay with-us!