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<blockquote data-quote="Liahona" data-source="post: 450171"><p>Thanks for answering. I'm really trying to not over-react, to be calm, vigilant, ect... </p><p></p><p>Ktllc, if this had been a different child I wouldn't be so worried, but difficult child 1's impulse control problems and the lack of warning I get before something really bad happens and puberty coming up and the very real possibility difficult child 1 has been exposed to sexual abuse its hard to not worry about the worst possible outcome. A book is a good idea. I'll do some research and find one I'm comfortable teaching. </p><p></p><p>Fran, I think I need to open the conversation about this topic myself more frequently; not wait for something to happen. Its a topic I need to talk to all the kids about. </p><p></p><p>Midwest mom, Yes this is the kid who has many times tried to kill his sibs. Ex's abuse of me has included rape, ex does look at porn, and ex does not censor himself or the content he is watching because a child is around. And ex has been married and divorced 3 times since being married to me (5 times total). difficult child 1 is very protective of ex and won't tell me (or anyone else) if ex has abused him, exposed him to sex, or exposed him to ex abusing others. </p><p></p><p>DDD, we'e already got that rule about modesty. Enforcing it with a 2 year old and some Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) boys has been very hard.</p><p></p><p>I'll keep everyone posted. Thanks for listening.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Liahona, post: 450171"] Thanks for answering. I'm really trying to not over-react, to be calm, vigilant, ect... Ktllc, if this had been a different child I wouldn't be so worried, but difficult child 1's impulse control problems and the lack of warning I get before something really bad happens and puberty coming up and the very real possibility difficult child 1 has been exposed to sexual abuse its hard to not worry about the worst possible outcome. A book is a good idea. I'll do some research and find one I'm comfortable teaching. Fran, I think I need to open the conversation about this topic myself more frequently; not wait for something to happen. Its a topic I need to talk to all the kids about. Midwest mom, Yes this is the kid who has many times tried to kill his sibs. Ex's abuse of me has included rape, ex does look at porn, and ex does not censor himself or the content he is watching because a child is around. And ex has been married and divorced 3 times since being married to me (5 times total). difficult child 1 is very protective of ex and won't tell me (or anyone else) if ex has abused him, exposed him to sex, or exposed him to ex abusing others. DDD, we'e already got that rule about modesty. Enforcing it with a 2 year old and some Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD) boys has been very hard. I'll keep everyone posted. Thanks for listening. [/QUOTE]
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