Do you know this for a fact or did your sister tell you?
My children bait and tick me off and laugh at me and love me and hate me all the time. We are battling our way through some off the goofiest, most horrifyingly bad things that could happen to any family, ever.
But somehow, we are all still hanging in there for one another.
Well, except for my son this week, I guess. Actually for three weeks.
Whatever.
It will be impossible for him not to love me. I am his mother.
:O)
Where was I.
Even if you called your mom and said terrible things she would, unless there was something deeply wrong in her hard wiring, want to love you. If what your sister said is true, then your mom's hard-wiring was at fault.
Not you.
Her.
And if these things were true, if your mother really said that...what would motivate your sister to repeat them to you? Only to destroy you.
How do you know your sister did not manipulate your mother into doing what she did regarding the disinheritance?
I mean, do you know different?
Why is she so determined to destroy you? There has to be something, some reason she wants you discredited.
There has to be, SWOT.
Nothing else makes sense.
What is she afraid of?
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Our difficult child kids here do the most terrible things to us all the time and we are all right here trying to figure it out because we love them and cannot just turn that off. Nor do we want to. Not really. Not forever.
It is good to have a look at these things.
You know what they say: Nothing is as it seems and the center doesn't hold. Whatever. I will find the correct quote tomorrow, maybe.
It is beautiful.
Something about a gyre spinning and the center not holding and nothing being what it seems.
Cedar
