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Ungreatful, disrespective daughter, help
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 709180" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>in my opinion its time for her to grow up and move out. Does she work or contribute to the house?,</p><p>You can offer to keep the child under your roof, but if she were mine, she would be gone. She is not a young girl anymore and you do her no favors by housing and paying all her bills as thoigh she IS a child. Does she go out snd party too? Usong YOUR car? Use drugs or drink a lot?</p><p></p><p>We are not obligated to take care of ungrateful twenty four year old women who abuse us. Its your decision, of course.</p><p></p><p>There is nothing you can do to stop an adult from acting poorly, but you dont have to allow her to do it under your roof. Its not safe for her to bring these dangerous men around you, her daughter,vor anyone else who lives with her. You are her mother now, not her mommy and you dont have to enable her horrible behavuor. You cant change anyone but yourself, however you CAN change how YOU deal with her. You dont have to take it.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry you are going through this. I hope you have yhe strength and courage to cut off her money snd give her a month to get ready to move out. You can not take care of her forever. Living this way can make you sick and YOU matter! And your nicer sons deserve a peaceful place to visit. She is not the boss of all of you unless you allow it.</p><p>Put her on notice. Jmo. Or she may turn 30 or 40 and still be on your couch barking orders. This is not okay.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 709180, member: 1550"] in my opinion its time for her to grow up and move out. Does she work or contribute to the house?, You can offer to keep the child under your roof, but if she were mine, she would be gone. She is not a young girl anymore and you do her no favors by housing and paying all her bills as thoigh she IS a child. Does she go out snd party too? Usong YOUR car? Use drugs or drink a lot? We are not obligated to take care of ungrateful twenty four year old women who abuse us. Its your decision, of course. There is nothing you can do to stop an adult from acting poorly, but you dont have to allow her to do it under your roof. Its not safe for her to bring these dangerous men around you, her daughter,vor anyone else who lives with her. You are her mother now, not her mommy and you dont have to enable her horrible behavuor. You cant change anyone but yourself, however you CAN change how YOU deal with her. You dont have to take it. I am sorry you are going through this. I hope you have yhe strength and courage to cut off her money snd give her a month to get ready to move out. You can not take care of her forever. Living this way can make you sick and YOU matter! And your nicer sons deserve a peaceful place to visit. She is not the boss of all of you unless you allow it. Put her on notice. Jmo. Or she may turn 30 or 40 and still be on your couch barking orders. This is not okay. [/QUOTE]
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