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<blockquote data-quote="Overwhelmed1" data-source="post: 754975" data-attributes="member: 24921"><p>Apple,</p><p>No my son doesn't and him and his girlfriend live with me. I know you don't even need to say it.... </p><p>I am the worst enabler ever. </p><p>It's weird because I have staff at work and I am firm with them when need be. Wish I could be the same with my kids. </p><p></p><p>I'm working on it though. </p><p>I took some medicine today and am pretty laid-back. I usually take one at night only but I took two today. Not to worry it is prescribed for three a day but I always just take one at night. Decided to take as prescribed and I feel better than I've felt in a long time. I hate taking any kind of medicine. </p><p></p><p>I know my daughter will be fine. Her and the kids have food and if they don't it's her fault. I give 6-8 hundred in cash every month on top of paying all her bills. I am living without anything extra after I pay my bills.</p><p></p><p>Probably too much info in a place like this but I am on my last nerve and dime! I just can't do it any more. It's been 2 years of this and I feel sick at what all I have done and still get treated like like I do by my kids.</p><p></p><p>My daughter tells me I am evil. I give her money and pay her bills so I can control her. I don't even live in the same State so how can I be controlling?</p><p></p><p>This post must show how ridiculously stupid I am.</p><p></p><p>I'm rambling on, must show you how scrambled my mind is today. Relaxed but feeling ashamed of myself for being such an enabler. There is no excuse for me doing this for my kids. I need to stop this insanity...</p><p>Completely ridiculous on my part...</p><p></p><p>Glad I could vent somewhere. Thank you all for not being hard on me for my insane actions where my kids are concerned. </p><p></p><p>Peace and Love</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Overwhelmed1, post: 754975, member: 24921"] Apple, No my son doesn't and him and his girlfriend live with me. I know you don't even need to say it.... I am the worst enabler ever. It's weird because I have staff at work and I am firm with them when need be. Wish I could be the same with my kids. I'm working on it though. I took some medicine today and am pretty laid-back. I usually take one at night only but I took two today. Not to worry it is prescribed for three a day but I always just take one at night. Decided to take as prescribed and I feel better than I've felt in a long time. I hate taking any kind of medicine. I know my daughter will be fine. Her and the kids have food and if they don't it's her fault. I give 6-8 hundred in cash every month on top of paying all her bills. I am living without anything extra after I pay my bills. Probably too much info in a place like this but I am on my last nerve and dime! I just can't do it any more. It's been 2 years of this and I feel sick at what all I have done and still get treated like like I do by my kids. My daughter tells me I am evil. I give her money and pay her bills so I can control her. I don't even live in the same State so how can I be controlling? This post must show how ridiculously stupid I am. I'm rambling on, must show you how scrambled my mind is today. Relaxed but feeling ashamed of myself for being such an enabler. There is no excuse for me doing this for my kids. I need to stop this insanity... Completely ridiculous on my part... Glad I could vent somewhere. Thank you all for not being hard on me for my insane actions where my kids are concerned. Peace and Love [/QUOTE]
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