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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 754981" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Overwhelmed, your daughter is putting the blame on you in order to deflect responsibility for her own life decisions. Just because somebody accuses us of earthquakes and storms does not mean it makes sense. You are supporting your daughter and grandkids. It is perhaps not good for you to do this, but you do it out of love. That your daughter still does not acknowledge this goodness in your heart says more about her than you. Please don't wonder if her words have merit. In the back of her mind, even she must know she is the one who caused her life to be this way. And only she can change it. </p><p> </p><p>We are parents of kids who abuse us, yet they are beloved and they can hurt us as nobody else can. And for many years most of us allow it. Decades for some. We hope that this one last time that we help will be that time they see the light.</p><p></p><p>You are not alone. </p><p></p><p>Please be kind to yourself. Say kind things to yourself. I send prayers and hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 754981, member: 23706"] Overwhelmed, your daughter is putting the blame on you in order to deflect responsibility for her own life decisions. Just because somebody accuses us of earthquakes and storms does not mean it makes sense. You are supporting your daughter and grandkids. It is perhaps not good for you to do this, but you do it out of love. That your daughter still does not acknowledge this goodness in your heart says more about her than you. Please don't wonder if her words have merit. In the back of her mind, even she must know she is the one who caused her life to be this way. And only she can change it. We are parents of kids who abuse us, yet they are beloved and they can hurt us as nobody else can. And for many years most of us allow it. Decades for some. We hope that this one last time that we help will be that time they see the light. You are not alone. Please be kind to yourself. Say kind things to yourself. I send prayers and hugs. [/QUOTE]
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