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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 236840" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>If that's where your professionals are going with this, I'd dump both and see a neuropsychologist now. I'm just a mom, but my mom gut (and 30 years in the mental health world myself) tell me that you have a few bad eggs. They exist in droves in the mental health profession. I'd have him evaluated and I'll bet you stop hearing about how it's your parenting. And this time maybe a couple males would be better. Truly, if these two were treating my kid, I'd fire them. You need people who will dig deeply to see what is wrong, not this--as you can see, it's not working. If this were me, I'd take the focus off of being "hard" on him because in my opinion it's not completely his fault and your being "soft" on his isn't the issue. One day is an eternity to our kids. Maybe others will disagree, but I would keep it to that and focus on finding that neuropsychologist, and finding out what is really going on. It will be a terrible weekend for you if you try to restrict him for three days and he probabaly isn't going to change his behavior because of it. in my opinion I doubt he CAN change his behavior yet. He needs a different sort of help than what he is getting. JMO, but I've had a lot of experience both with myself and my kid. Not that this makes me a pro...lol. Until the neuropsychologist evaluation. was completed, I would hold off on the alternative school. How can they help him if they don't even know what they are dealing with? I'd push for a small class in THIS school. JMO again. Good luck again <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 236840, member: 1550"] If that's where your professionals are going with this, I'd dump both and see a neuropsychologist now. I'm just a mom, but my mom gut (and 30 years in the mental health world myself) tell me that you have a few bad eggs. They exist in droves in the mental health profession. I'd have him evaluated and I'll bet you stop hearing about how it's your parenting. And this time maybe a couple males would be better. Truly, if these two were treating my kid, I'd fire them. You need people who will dig deeply to see what is wrong, not this--as you can see, it's not working. If this were me, I'd take the focus off of being "hard" on him because in my opinion it's not completely his fault and your being "soft" on his isn't the issue. One day is an eternity to our kids. Maybe others will disagree, but I would keep it to that and focus on finding that neuropsychologist, and finding out what is really going on. It will be a terrible weekend for you if you try to restrict him for three days and he probabaly isn't going to change his behavior because of it. in my opinion I doubt he CAN change his behavior yet. He needs a different sort of help than what he is getting. JMO, but I've had a lot of experience both with myself and my kid. Not that this makes me a pro...lol. Until the neuropsychologist evaluation. was completed, I would hold off on the alternative school. How can they help him if they don't even know what they are dealing with? I'd push for a small class in THIS school. JMO again. Good luck again :) [/QUOTE]
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