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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 742099" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>You did nothing wrong. A lot of kids move around a lot. So what? They are not all living a bad life. Dont let him guilt you. They try that to guilt us into giving them money. Dont help your son get a car. He can kill himself or someone else if intoxicated. He doesnt need a car. At his age he can work more and buy his own used car.</p><p></p><p>Your son needs in my opinion to find his own mental healthcare if he wants it. You may want to tell your son that jail is a step to prison. My daughter is a Corrections Officer and at least here jail is worse than prison. This probably wont deter him but you can try. If he doesnt mind breaking the law and wont go for help.... sadly your hands are tied.</p><p></p><p>Have you done anything for yourself lately? Do you have other loved ones to hang out with and lean on? Good friends from church? Hobbies? Have you ever been in therapy for just yourself or you and your husband? Any other children?</p><p></p><p>You matter. Please dont let this stress you out to the point that you get ill. Remember the Serenity Prayer. So powerful in its content.</p><p></p><p>God grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change,</p><p>The courage to change the things I can,</p><p>And the wisdom to know the difference.</p><p></p><p>Love abd light!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 742099, member: 1550"] You did nothing wrong. A lot of kids move around a lot. So what? They are not all living a bad life. Dont let him guilt you. They try that to guilt us into giving them money. Dont help your son get a car. He can kill himself or someone else if intoxicated. He doesnt need a car. At his age he can work more and buy his own used car. Your son needs in my opinion to find his own mental healthcare if he wants it. You may want to tell your son that jail is a step to prison. My daughter is a Corrections Officer and at least here jail is worse than prison. This probably wont deter him but you can try. If he doesnt mind breaking the law and wont go for help.... sadly your hands are tied. Have you done anything for yourself lately? Do you have other loved ones to hang out with and lean on? Good friends from church? Hobbies? Have you ever been in therapy for just yourself or you and your husband? Any other children? You matter. Please dont let this stress you out to the point that you get ill. Remember the Serenity Prayer. So powerful in its content. God grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change, The courage to change the things I can, And the wisdom to know the difference. Love abd light! [/QUOTE]
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