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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 572277" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>I dont know if I will give a popular answer but it will be an answer. </p><p></p><p>I am so sorry for all you are going through emotionally first off. This is very difficult for you as I can tell from your post. </p><p></p><p>Right now I think you need to step back a bit and take a breath. When is homecoming for your husband? If he has any substantial length of time left to go I think I would take him out of the picture for the immediate time being because he really cant do anything and you certainly dont want him focusing on problems at home when he needs his entire focus being over there. If that means blocking the two of them on facebook, so be it. </p><p></p><p>Now about you, your daughter and your parents. I realize it sounds like an awful idea but maybe her going to stay with her grandparents for awhile isnt a bad thing. You have been having a difficult time with her and they havent been exactly understanding of what you have been going through. I see this as maybe a win/win for both of you. You could get some respite time and your parents would get to see exactly what you go through on a daily/weekly/monthly basis. They may come to understanding of how difficult it is to live with and raise a child with these types of issues.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 572277, member: 1514"] I dont know if I will give a popular answer but it will be an answer. I am so sorry for all you are going through emotionally first off. This is very difficult for you as I can tell from your post. Right now I think you need to step back a bit and take a breath. When is homecoming for your husband? If he has any substantial length of time left to go I think I would take him out of the picture for the immediate time being because he really cant do anything and you certainly dont want him focusing on problems at home when he needs his entire focus being over there. If that means blocking the two of them on facebook, so be it. Now about you, your daughter and your parents. I realize it sounds like an awful idea but maybe her going to stay with her grandparents for awhile isnt a bad thing. You have been having a difficult time with her and they havent been exactly understanding of what you have been going through. I see this as maybe a win/win for both of you. You could get some respite time and your parents would get to see exactly what you go through on a daily/weekly/monthly basis. They may come to understanding of how difficult it is to live with and raise a child with these types of issues. [/QUOTE]
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