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Update on difficult child, he is now living with birth mom and family
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<blockquote data-quote="natalieoh" data-source="post: 436235"><p>Hi Malika, je vous remercie beaucoup pour votre gentillesse.</p><p></p><p>What wise souls on this site and such huge compassion. I couldn't agree more about the emptiness and the sense of not fitting in. There is a different energy between us, a different perspective, need etc. I reflect on teen moms and have often felt that there is no easy answer when it comes to adopting vs aborting, vs keeping the child. Each one is very difficult. Star your words are so powerful and profound. I am copying this all. Our son is going into therapy soon. His birth mom plans to do family therapy too. Her idea which is is cool. We are now experiencing joint parenting. She is such a remarkable person. This is profound for her to have our difficult child back in her life after almost 19 years. She is a remarkable woman.</p><p></p><p>Star I give you credit for the very difficult work you have done in therapy and I pray that you feel peace inside. You survived some tough years and are stronger and wiser for it. I just pray that you feel whole. You are giving all of us a gift with your presence on this site. The rage and anger you talk about is what my son has had inside of him from literally day one. Interesting. When we brought him home from the hospital he was very quiet. At midnight the firs night he cried for four hours straight. He held his little head up and looked at me in a very angry way. I'll never forget it. It was like he was saying to me who the heck are you??? I was shocked to see a two day old infant have that kind of head control that he could look right at me and raise his head up so strongly. He knew didn't he. He could sense our differences.</p><p></p><p>Wow ladies, wish we could all have a retreat day somewhere and just talk and laugh.... maybe someday huh?</p><p></p><p>love,</p><p>natalie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="natalieoh, post: 436235"] Hi Malika, je vous remercie beaucoup pour votre gentillesse. What wise souls on this site and such huge compassion. I couldn't agree more about the emptiness and the sense of not fitting in. There is a different energy between us, a different perspective, need etc. I reflect on teen moms and have often felt that there is no easy answer when it comes to adopting vs aborting, vs keeping the child. Each one is very difficult. Star your words are so powerful and profound. I am copying this all. Our son is going into therapy soon. His birth mom plans to do family therapy too. Her idea which is is cool. We are now experiencing joint parenting. She is such a remarkable person. This is profound for her to have our difficult child back in her life after almost 19 years. She is a remarkable woman. Star I give you credit for the very difficult work you have done in therapy and I pray that you feel peace inside. You survived some tough years and are stronger and wiser for it. I just pray that you feel whole. You are giving all of us a gift with your presence on this site. The rage and anger you talk about is what my son has had inside of him from literally day one. Interesting. When we brought him home from the hospital he was very quiet. At midnight the firs night he cried for four hours straight. He held his little head up and looked at me in a very angry way. I'll never forget it. It was like he was saying to me who the heck are you??? I was shocked to see a two day old infant have that kind of head control that he could look right at me and raise his head up so strongly. He knew didn't he. He could sense our differences. Wow ladies, wish we could all have a retreat day somewhere and just talk and laugh.... maybe someday huh? love, natalie [/QUOTE]
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