I am in a similar boat: difficult child lives with a family of difficult child:
Mom difficult child is 40 something, works as a CNA, smokes pot with rest of difficult child family.
Daughter, difficult child 20 is a stripper and has a 4 month old infant.
Son, difficult child 24 is the nanny for the baby.
My son, difficult child 21 doesn't do anything - no work, no work, no work, nothing.
GRRRRRR!!!!