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<blockquote data-quote="TeDo" data-source="post: 469769"><p>Could you maybe go with her to talk to the super/owner to see what can be done? It sounds like she just might need an advocate to help her talk to them about what she can do. I know when my anxiety was at its peak, this would have pushed me over the edge and I would shut down waiting for someone else to fix it because I just couldn't. This added stress might also make it harder for her to work and I hope that she doesn't lose her job because she can't perform her duties. My job was the first thing I lost when my anxiety got bad, but then again, I didn't have anyone to help me deal with the stress either. When I was in full panic mode, I COULDN'T think so I tended to just totally shut down and give up. I avoided conflict like the plague because that made the anxiety worse so I did the "flight" thing.</p><p></p><p>I would askher why she had to pay for the procedure all at one time. If she's a typical difficult child, she probably never even thought about asking to make payments. Or maybe that's required for procedures like hers. There could be a very logical explanation that she can give you. Who knows.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TeDo, post: 469769"] Could you maybe go with her to talk to the super/owner to see what can be done? It sounds like she just might need an advocate to help her talk to them about what she can do. I know when my anxiety was at its peak, this would have pushed me over the edge and I would shut down waiting for someone else to fix it because I just couldn't. This added stress might also make it harder for her to work and I hope that she doesn't lose her job because she can't perform her duties. My job was the first thing I lost when my anxiety got bad, but then again, I didn't have anyone to help me deal with the stress either. When I was in full panic mode, I COULDN'T think so I tended to just totally shut down and give up. I avoided conflict like the plague because that made the anxiety worse so I did the "flight" thing. I would askher why she had to pay for the procedure all at one time. If she's a typical difficult child, she probably never even thought about asking to make payments. Or maybe that's required for procedures like hers. There could be a very logical explanation that she can give you. Who knows. [/QUOTE]
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