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<blockquote data-quote="WhymeMom?" data-source="post: 146994" data-attributes="member: 53"><p>I am unsure of what to do in regard to his child. He has two other children from another woman, who finally moved on and married another man. This man adopted the two kids and that's all for the better of the children. I started a relationship with the granddaughter and the woman decided it wasn't going to work with difficult child while she was pregnant with grandson so I never even got to meet him. I haven't met the new girlfriend and grandson. She sent us an email in Jan. saying that she was friend of our son and had his baby. She wanted to let us know so if we wanted we could be a part of his life. Our son didn't want to tell us and he doesn't know that she contacted us. I'm not sure new girlfriend knows about old girlfriend, so really not sure how much to get involved in all this. She hasn't really asked for anything so we are taking it slow and haven't actually met. I think it would be tough to wait five years for someone you didn't really know all that well to begin with, knowing that when he gets out of jail he will be virtually unemployable because of his record. He probably won't be supporting a family. Just gets difficult when all our friends are showing pictures of grandkids and we just get to ooh and ahh and say nothing.......</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="WhymeMom?, post: 146994, member: 53"] I am unsure of what to do in regard to his child. He has two other children from another woman, who finally moved on and married another man. This man adopted the two kids and that's all for the better of the children. I started a relationship with the granddaughter and the woman decided it wasn't going to work with difficult child while she was pregnant with grandson so I never even got to meet him. I haven't met the new girlfriend and grandson. She sent us an email in Jan. saying that she was friend of our son and had his baby. She wanted to let us know so if we wanted we could be a part of his life. Our son didn't want to tell us and he doesn't know that she contacted us. I'm not sure new girlfriend knows about old girlfriend, so really not sure how much to get involved in all this. She hasn't really asked for anything so we are taking it slow and haven't actually met. I think it would be tough to wait five years for someone you didn't really know all that well to begin with, knowing that when he gets out of jail he will be virtually unemployable because of his record. He probably won't be supporting a family. Just gets difficult when all our friends are showing pictures of grandkids and we just get to ooh and ahh and say nothing....... [/QUOTE]
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