Well that’s exactly right, I truly believe he is manipulating me, but how can he do that through tears and saying he needs help? Like I struggle to understand is the tears and pleas for help real or part of tugging on my heartstrings?
Also the only way for him to move in to his own place (as our current situation is) is for him to get temporary accommodation (no guarantees where and what that place will be like). I live in rented accommodation and am more than happy to leave it if that means we can break this cycle, so that’s an avenue that I’m also exploring as a possibility. Either way though it will mean he has to go in to temporary accommodation. I’m just so nervous at the prospect of him living somewhere he’s put in to on his own, especially if it’s going to be in the same town we live in now or nearby. I know that will mean I won’t truly get any peace.
