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I'm new here. Going thru an adult son messing up situation too. How horrible for you and them. Where is Dad? Any other relatives to help? I just read the post on detachment and it really hit home. I'm trying to do that now. It's hard. Hoping you are able to get some help with them or detach or...jeez, I don't know what at this point! Older brother sounds like he's doing better - good. Can he help with the younger one? I feel like I have no advice or words of wisdom because I'm in over my head as well. I do hope it gets better for you! <3