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CB, if he breaks up with you, it may end up being exactly what YOU need. Many years ago, my husband left me because I took in my little granddaughter because my own daughter could not care for her properly, It was a pretty devastating life change on all counts, being a mom again and losing my partner. However, as time went by and I got over the grief and loss of that life, a whole new life emerged............my fiance is one of those guys who is a real Dad kind of guy and he has showered my granddaughter and I with love, humor, endless patience and strength. He's the Dad she needed to have and the partner I didn't even know I needed.  So, sometimes life just pulls the rug out from under us, like all the changes in your life right now, which are profound...........but a year from now, you could look back and say, "that was when my whole life changed for the better, I started to get  ALL MY needs met then."  Hang in there CB, it isn't over yet, there's a lot going on and you will handle it all well, as you are already doing.............HUGS...........


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