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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 235042" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I am so very sorry. Welcome Back to our group, I forgot to say that.</p><p></p><p>This is a VERY scary thing. He truly NEEDS more than just medications and outpatient therapy. This fantasy persisted for a very long time. And then he acted on it to the point that you were injured. Did you press charges against him for domestic violence or assault?</p><p></p><p>I know it is very hard, but you MUST get him placed somewhere out of your home. It simply is NOT safe to have him in the home with you, no matter what medications he is on or what therapy he is getting. </p><p></p><p>It is hard to have your child need to live elsewhere because he hurt you. I know, my son was put into a psychiatric hospital for 4 months at age 12 for trying to kill his sister. Then, at age 14 we had to have him removed from our home by the Sheriff because he was beating me. It was the hardest thing I have ever done. He ended up living with my parents (after the Youth Shelter kicked him out because he refused to follow the rules!). My dad had just retired from teaching jr high and was able to reach him somehow. </p><p></p><p>Now, at age 17, my son has thanked me for having him removed. We ALL realize he would have killed one of us if he stayed here. But at my parents he is in all regular classes, getting good grades, learning to be a machinist, and generally being a good son, brother and grandson.</p><p></p><p>So removing him CAN turn out for the good. But you really MUST make social services and or the court see that he simply cannot safely live with you.</p><p></p><p>Whatever happens, stick around. There is a lot of support, sympathy and help here.</p><p></p><p>by the way, after several months on zoloft it is not uncommon or unheard of for young men to become very aggressive. It happened to my son, and to the sons of other people who have been here in the past. My son described it as an overwhelming preoccupation with hurting me and my daughter. </p><p></p><p>So be VERY careful not to get into a situation where he could hurt you again. You might not be able to get out and get help the next time.</p><p></p><p>Gentle hugs,</p><p></p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 235042, member: 1233"] I am so very sorry. Welcome Back to our group, I forgot to say that. This is a VERY scary thing. He truly NEEDS more than just medications and outpatient therapy. This fantasy persisted for a very long time. And then he acted on it to the point that you were injured. Did you press charges against him for domestic violence or assault? I know it is very hard, but you MUST get him placed somewhere out of your home. It simply is NOT safe to have him in the home with you, no matter what medications he is on or what therapy he is getting. It is hard to have your child need to live elsewhere because he hurt you. I know, my son was put into a psychiatric hospital for 4 months at age 12 for trying to kill his sister. Then, at age 14 we had to have him removed from our home by the Sheriff because he was beating me. It was the hardest thing I have ever done. He ended up living with my parents (after the Youth Shelter kicked him out because he refused to follow the rules!). My dad had just retired from teaching jr high and was able to reach him somehow. Now, at age 17, my son has thanked me for having him removed. We ALL realize he would have killed one of us if he stayed here. But at my parents he is in all regular classes, getting good grades, learning to be a machinist, and generally being a good son, brother and grandson. So removing him CAN turn out for the good. But you really MUST make social services and or the court see that he simply cannot safely live with you. Whatever happens, stick around. There is a lot of support, sympathy and help here. by the way, after several months on zoloft it is not uncommon or unheard of for young men to become very aggressive. It happened to my son, and to the sons of other people who have been here in the past. My son described it as an overwhelming preoccupation with hurting me and my daughter. So be VERY careful not to get into a situation where he could hurt you again. You might not be able to get out and get help the next time. Gentle hugs, Susie [/QUOTE]
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