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<blockquote data-quote="TerryJ2" data-source="post: 235145" data-attributes="member: 3419"><p>Hi Learner, welcome back. </p><p>I am so sorry for your trauma.</p><p> </p><p>I am glad that the police and you were able to work out a program for therapy rather than jail for your son.</p><p> </p><p>I'm curious as to why you would still need to know how to get out of a tied-up position. You seem to think he's going to do it again.</p><p>Or, you're reliving the experience.</p><p>Yes, thigh muscles work great, and scooting to an object like a stair, is a good idea, as Anaheimfan suggested.</p><p>If you do the laundry or take a shower and your son is in the house, or do anything else where you are absorbed and have to turn your back, you must have a lock on the door. Remember, at 16, he's smart and capable, so if he wants to get you through a locked door, he will. It will simply slow him down enough so that you can get to Plan B. Which is ...?</p><p> </p><p>He needs to understand that to play "games" like that, to see if the person can get out of it, he needs approval and permission from the other person. To him, you are not another person. You are an object, like a chair or a vase. </p><p>If he hasn't gotten to that point in therapy, I would not allow him back in the house.</p><p> </p><p>Best of luck. I'm sending support and strength.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TerryJ2, post: 235145, member: 3419"] Hi Learner, welcome back. I am so sorry for your trauma. I am glad that the police and you were able to work out a program for therapy rather than jail for your son. I'm curious as to why you would still need to know how to get out of a tied-up position. You seem to think he's going to do it again. Or, you're reliving the experience. Yes, thigh muscles work great, and scooting to an object like a stair, is a good idea, as Anaheimfan suggested. If you do the laundry or take a shower and your son is in the house, or do anything else where you are absorbed and have to turn your back, you must have a lock on the door. Remember, at 16, he's smart and capable, so if he wants to get you through a locked door, he will. It will simply slow him down enough so that you can get to Plan B. Which is ...? He needs to understand that to play "games" like that, to see if the person can get out of it, he needs approval and permission from the other person. To him, you are not another person. You are an object, like a chair or a vase. If he hasn't gotten to that point in therapy, I would not allow him back in the house. Best of luck. I'm sending support and strength. [/QUOTE]
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