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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 235240" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Learner,</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry you have to deal with this. But I agree with the others. Until your son has had a LOT of INPATIENT therapy, it is not safe to have him at home. Not safe for you, for anyone who's house he may go over to or decide to go in.</p><p></p><p>Having fantasies about tying someone up for several years, and then actually tying your mother up with-o her consent and thinking it funny and leaving her alone for long periods of time is a<u><strong><span style="color: Red"> HUGE RED FLAG</span></strong></u> that he NEEDS intensive help. Much more help than can be done outpatient.</p><p></p><p>You should have sent HIM to his fathers home - fathers have a degree of authority, and your son may only fantasize about tying up women. You truly NEED to refuse to live with him in your home. He needs an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) or other inpatient therapeautic setting. Kids with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) (I have one) do NOT just "get over" their obsessions with-o a LOT of help. And we found it took far more help than even the most intensive in-home therapy could provide.</p><p></p><p>Get that life alert necklace, but be aware he may take it off of you. I would be willing to be that if he has tried tying you up he has tried it on someone smaller and weaker than you. I am also willing to bet he will try it again, and that it won't have an outcome as positive as this one (where you were eventually able to get help and get away).</p><p></p><p>I am sorry. I will be praying for you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 235240, member: 1233"] Learner, I am so sorry you have to deal with this. But I agree with the others. Until your son has had a LOT of INPATIENT therapy, it is not safe to have him at home. Not safe for you, for anyone who's house he may go over to or decide to go in. Having fantasies about tying someone up for several years, and then actually tying your mother up with-o her consent and thinking it funny and leaving her alone for long periods of time is a[U][B][COLOR=Red] HUGE RED FLAG[/COLOR][/B][/U] that he NEEDS intensive help. Much more help than can be done outpatient. You should have sent HIM to his fathers home - fathers have a degree of authority, and your son may only fantasize about tying up women. You truly NEED to refuse to live with him in your home. He needs an Residential Treatment Center (RTC) or other inpatient therapeautic setting. Kids with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) (I have one) do NOT just "get over" their obsessions with-o a LOT of help. And we found it took far more help than even the most intensive in-home therapy could provide. Get that life alert necklace, but be aware he may take it off of you. I would be willing to be that if he has tried tying you up he has tried it on someone smaller and weaker than you. I am also willing to bet he will try it again, and that it won't have an outcome as positive as this one (where you were eventually able to get help and get away). I am sorry. I will be praying for you. [/QUOTE]
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