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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 235270" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I'm with Janet and klmno on this one. My mommy heart hurts for you, but you are in danger from this child that you love (something that I can only imagine and is so sad). This is not a fantasy or a game, he is 16, big, and he acted on it and for all you know he has tied up kids in the neighborhood or WILL later on. He could end up in jail for years and years. If this were my child, as hard as it would be, he would not be walking the streets, for everyone's sake including his own. He took it a step too far and acted on it so it is no longer a twisted fantasy. It is a reality, something he is capable of doing. And you can't know if he is capable of more. Nobody can, which is why he needs in my opinion 24/7 help and observation. He's still young. I would want him to have it all. </p><p></p><p>If he were mine, he would not be near me. Not only do you need to be alive to advocate for this child, but you have a daughter who needs you to be alive and well and is at risk from her brother. This child would not be in my home ever again, although I would support and love him through his therapy. Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) in my opinion doesn't even begin to cover this. </p><p></p><p>Obviously you must make this decision for yourself. I hope you decide to keep everyone safe, and I send you my good vibes and thoughts and hope for a better future.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 235270, member: 1550"] I'm with Janet and klmno on this one. My mommy heart hurts for you, but you are in danger from this child that you love (something that I can only imagine and is so sad). This is not a fantasy or a game, he is 16, big, and he acted on it and for all you know he has tied up kids in the neighborhood or WILL later on. He could end up in jail for years and years. If this were my child, as hard as it would be, he would not be walking the streets, for everyone's sake including his own. He took it a step too far and acted on it so it is no longer a twisted fantasy. It is a reality, something he is capable of doing. And you can't know if he is capable of more. Nobody can, which is why he needs in my opinion 24/7 help and observation. He's still young. I would want him to have it all. If he were mine, he would not be near me. Not only do you need to be alive to advocate for this child, but you have a daughter who needs you to be alive and well and is at risk from her brother. This child would not be in my home ever again, although I would support and love him through his therapy. Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) in my opinion doesn't even begin to cover this. Obviously you must make this decision for yourself. I hope you decide to keep everyone safe, and I send you my good vibes and thoughts and hope for a better future. [/QUOTE]
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