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<blockquote data-quote="DazedandConfused" data-source="post: 235537" data-attributes="member: 831"><p>Learner,</p><p> </p><p>I wanted to offer my support to you. In all honesty, your post gave me chills. This is gravely serious and miles beyond outpatient therapy. He's been fantasizing about doing this for a long time and now demonstrated that he is capable of acting it out. That he chose to act it out with you, his mother, his caretaker and nurturer, has bells and sirens going off in my head. He bound, gagged, and left you! </p><p> </p><p>In general, when our difficult children become violent, it is usually an unplanned impulse to lash out done in a fit of rage. It's the carefully thought out nature of this is what has me frightened for you and perhaps others in the future. </p><p> </p><p> </p><p> </p><p></p><p> </p><p>There's almost always something "worse" that could happen. You think you're going to be his only victim? At this point, you have simply slowed the ever-looping thoughts in his head. Unabated without intensive inpatient therapy, there WILL be a next time. I would also be concerned about the tickling because especially for people that are sensitive, it's a form of torture.</p><p> </p><p>Get the alarm, but more importantly, DO NOT have him live at home. I'm so sorry. To have your own child transgress against you in such a way is devastating.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DazedandConfused, post: 235537, member: 831"] Learner, I wanted to offer my support to you. In all honesty, your post gave me chills. This is gravely serious and miles beyond outpatient therapy. He's been fantasizing about doing this for a long time and now demonstrated that he is capable of acting it out. That he chose to act it out with you, his mother, his caretaker and nurturer, has bells and sirens going off in my head. He bound, gagged, and left you! In general, when our difficult children become violent, it is usually an unplanned impulse to lash out done in a fit of rage. It's the carefully thought out nature of this is what has me frightened for you and perhaps others in the future. There's almost always something "worse" that could happen. You think you're going to be his only victim? At this point, you have simply slowed the ever-looping thoughts in his head. Unabated without intensive inpatient therapy, there WILL be a next time. I would also be concerned about the tickling because especially for people that are sensitive, it's a form of torture. Get the alarm, but more importantly, DO NOT have him live at home. I'm so sorry. To have your own child transgress against you in such a way is devastating. [/QUOTE]
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