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<blockquote data-quote="DaisyFace" data-source="post: 236121" data-attributes="member: 6546"><p>Hello Learner--</p><p> </p><p>It does seem as though there is more to your postings than meets the eye...</p><p> </p><p>And I am sorry if I am way out of line...but here it what I am interpreting:</p><p> </p><p>When young men have fantasies about dominating and controlling others this way...it is often because they are sexually aroused by the violent nature of this type of act. However...in many other ways, these guys may be perfectly "normal", even downright sweet...wouldn't hurt a fly. But they are so obsessed with these fantasies that they try to convince a loved one to allow him to do it to her (usually a wife or a girlfriend...sometimes a relative).</p><p> </p><p>And the loved one finds herself in the position of submitting to this young man in order to make him happy. Now she often really doesn't even want to--but "giving in" seems to keep him on a <em>even keel</em>, so to speak. And so she tries to find ways to go along--but doesn't want to go along <em>too</em> far...because some of the things he has in mind are really very, very scary.</p><p> </p><p>Eventually...someone is going to become the victim of a terrible, terrible crime. Either the loved one--or more likely, after the loved one finally says "<em>Enough! No</em> <em>More</em>!"--a random stranger on the street...a person to whom this young man owes no allegiance.</p><p> </p><p>You are NOT helping him if you are trying to go along with his fantasies to keep him happy...</p><p> </p><p>Please, <em>please</em> recognize that this will get much, much worse if someone does not intervene to help this young man...before it is too late.</p><p> </p><p>Save him! Save yourself! Save the young woman he may accidentally cross paths with on a day that you are not around....</p><p> </p><p>Please...make that call.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DaisyFace, post: 236121, member: 6546"] Hello Learner-- It does seem as though there is more to your postings than meets the eye... And I am sorry if I am way out of line...but here it what I am interpreting: When young men have fantasies about dominating and controlling others this way...it is often because they are sexually aroused by the violent nature of this type of act. However...in many other ways, these guys may be perfectly "normal", even downright sweet...wouldn't hurt a fly. But they are so obsessed with these fantasies that they try to convince a loved one to allow him to do it to her (usually a wife or a girlfriend...sometimes a relative). And the loved one finds herself in the position of submitting to this young man in order to make him happy. Now she often really doesn't even want to--but "giving in" seems to keep him on a [I]even keel[/I], so to speak. And so she tries to find ways to go along--but doesn't want to go along [I]too[/I] far...because some of the things he has in mind are really very, very scary. Eventually...someone is going to become the victim of a terrible, terrible crime. Either the loved one--or more likely, after the loved one finally says "[I]Enough! No[/I] [I]More[/I]!"--a random stranger on the street...a person to whom this young man owes no allegiance. You are NOT helping him if you are trying to go along with his fantasies to keep him happy... Please, [I]please[/I] recognize that this will get much, much worse if someone does not intervene to help this young man...before it is too late. Save him! Save yourself! Save the young woman he may accidentally cross paths with on a day that you are not around.... Please...make that call. [/QUOTE]
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