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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 86181" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>Mikey, I don't think I've ever felt so bad for anyone in my life. Your pain is truly palpable.</p><p></p><p>To me, McWeedy is no longer a factor. He will move out. He will join the druggie life. Whether he stays with it or not is another question. For many middle class kids, that life is super so long as there is a place of comfort to go to at the end of the binge. So, he may discover he hates his life and actually try to do something about it. However, he may also get or even be so deep into it that he can't get out. Sadly, this is a wait and see thing.</p><p></p><p>What hurts is that wife won't see how she is being manipulated and puts the blame on you. From this seat, I think more of the blame belongs on her. You have tried to stop it and to get him help. She has let him do the same thing over and over. The miracle I wish for you is that she see the truth before it is too late. That she realize that children leave the nest no matter what the reason but that her mate committed to a lifetime and is there for her.</p><p></p><p>You truly don't deserve what is going on. Dancer and Sarge don't deserve it. McWeedy has pretty much picked his bed and, sadly, your wife is making it. Again, I am so sorry.</p><p></p><p>At this point, I think all that can be offered is a shoulder for you lean on (and cry on when wanted), a ear to listen and a friend to be here for you. May there be some peace in all of this soon.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 86181, member: 3626"] Mikey, I don't think I've ever felt so bad for anyone in my life. Your pain is truly palpable. To me, McWeedy is no longer a factor. He will move out. He will join the druggie life. Whether he stays with it or not is another question. For many middle class kids, that life is super so long as there is a place of comfort to go to at the end of the binge. So, he may discover he hates his life and actually try to do something about it. However, he may also get or even be so deep into it that he can't get out. Sadly, this is a wait and see thing. What hurts is that wife won't see how she is being manipulated and puts the blame on you. From this seat, I think more of the blame belongs on her. You have tried to stop it and to get him help. She has let him do the same thing over and over. The miracle I wish for you is that she see the truth before it is too late. That she realize that children leave the nest no matter what the reason but that her mate committed to a lifetime and is there for her. You truly don't deserve what is going on. Dancer and Sarge don't deserve it. McWeedy has pretty much picked his bed and, sadly, your wife is making it. Again, I am so sorry. At this point, I think all that can be offered is a shoulder for you lean on (and cry on when wanted), a ear to listen and a friend to be here for you. May there be some peace in all of this soon. [/QUOTE]
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