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<blockquote data-quote="TYLERFAN" data-source="post: 86184" data-attributes="member: 26"><p>Hi Mikey:</p><p></p><p>It is a process for us all, you, McWeedy, wife.....I am glad you have realized you are powerless over the addict, that is a major step. :bravo: Not an easy step, but a necessary one. </p><p>I am really sorry that you and wife are not on the same page. It makes things harder, for you and her. She isn't ready yet, and as a mother who also took a long time to be ready, I can understand......She may come around eventually. </p><p>McWeedy, like so many of our darling difficult child's, are convinced about how great and easy life would be if we didn't have to live under the dictatorship of our parents.....It just ain't so. And in December, McWeedy will get to see for real how it is on the "outside". </p><p>Mikey, my difficult child went thru stuff a young girl should NOT have to bear....I still credit the day I let go, as the day she started to stand. It did not happen right away, she came home a few times, it never worked out. Now, at 22, difficult child is sober only 90 days, has moved more times than I can keep track of and is now hopefully going to be in charge of a sober house on her own. :smile: I hope it works out for her. I have her son, for at least the next 3 years..... :bravo: He's so cute :rofl:</p><p>And I will keep him out of the fray as long as I can, hopefully until he is grown. </p><p>He is still only 18, he's young and immature and will be for years to come. I hope your marraige can survive the differences of opinion you two have......you and wife. It's amazing how a difficult child can triangulate a marraige.</p><p>Be well my friend and keep us posted. "keep coming back" as they say....Glad you went to NA.</p><p></p><p>Blessings to you and your family,</p><p>Melissa :angel:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TYLERFAN, post: 86184, member: 26"] Hi Mikey: It is a process for us all, you, McWeedy, wife.....I am glad you have realized you are powerless over the addict, that is a major step. [img]:bravo:[/img] Not an easy step, but a necessary one. I am really sorry that you and wife are not on the same page. It makes things harder, for you and her. She isn't ready yet, and as a mother who also took a long time to be ready, I can understand......She may come around eventually. McWeedy, like so many of our darling difficult child's, are convinced about how great and easy life would be if we didn't have to live under the dictatorship of our parents.....It just ain't so. And in December, McWeedy will get to see for real how it is on the "outside". Mikey, my difficult child went thru stuff a young girl should NOT have to bear....I still credit the day I let go, as the day she started to stand. It did not happen right away, she came home a few times, it never worked out. Now, at 22, difficult child is sober only 90 days, has moved more times than I can keep track of and is now hopefully going to be in charge of a sober house on her own. [img]:smile:[/img] I hope it works out for her. I have her son, for at least the next 3 years..... [img]:bravo:[/img] He's so cute [img]:rofl:[/img] And I will keep him out of the fray as long as I can, hopefully until he is grown. He is still only 18, he's young and immature and will be for years to come. I hope your marraige can survive the differences of opinion you two have......you and wife. It's amazing how a difficult child can triangulate a marraige. Be well my friend and keep us posted. "keep coming back" as they say....Glad you went to NA. Blessings to you and your family, Melissa [img]:angel:[/img] [/QUOTE]
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