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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 247048" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I think the diagnosis simply documents that there are some issues between you and difficult child - it does NOT mean you are a bad mom in any way. Simply put, if your relationship was fine, he wouldn't hold a knife to you (that is how the docs would look at it). When Wiz was in the psychiatric hospital we had MOTHER/Child relationship stress and sibling relationship issues both documented. They told me that it simply meant that he had attacked me on numerous occasions and that he had hurt his siblings also. They left father/child out because my husband is terribly non-confrontational and during all the rages/arguing, etc... husband stayed in another room with the kids at least 90&#37; of the time. They couldn't have a problem simply because husband refused to address problem behavior.</p><p></p><p>I think that you need to go and document every time the PO undermined you to difficult child (do a search on your posts here if you don't have a diary of these things). One thing you may want to do is create a document with bullets for each thing she did - and arrange them to show how arbitrary she was. </p><p></p><p>That may or may not be needed in court, but it would CYA if the judge starts leaning toward what PO says. You can say that she has fought to keep difficult child from having services, etc...</p><p></p><p>I am keeping positive thoughts that the judge will make the correct ruling and send difficult child to Residential Treatment Center (RTC).</p><p></p><p>I think you are doing a great job of advocating for your son, and I hope you are taking care of yourself.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 247048, member: 1233"] I think the diagnosis simply documents that there are some issues between you and difficult child - it does NOT mean you are a bad mom in any way. Simply put, if your relationship was fine, he wouldn't hold a knife to you (that is how the docs would look at it). When Wiz was in the psychiatric hospital we had MOTHER/Child relationship stress and sibling relationship issues both documented. They told me that it simply meant that he had attacked me on numerous occasions and that he had hurt his siblings also. They left father/child out because my husband is terribly non-confrontational and during all the rages/arguing, etc... husband stayed in another room with the kids at least 90% of the time. They couldn't have a problem simply because husband refused to address problem behavior. I think that you need to go and document every time the PO undermined you to difficult child (do a search on your posts here if you don't have a diary of these things). One thing you may want to do is create a document with bullets for each thing she did - and arrange them to show how arbitrary she was. That may or may not be needed in court, but it would CYA if the judge starts leaning toward what PO says. You can say that she has fought to keep difficult child from having services, etc... I am keeping positive thoughts that the judge will make the correct ruling and send difficult child to Residential Treatment Center (RTC). I think you are doing a great job of advocating for your son, and I hope you are taking care of yourself. [/QUOTE]
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