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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 247049" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>The thing is, the PO knew difficult child had been self-harming and knew of a bunch of other stuff going on. She didn't take any steps to help difficult child or me until after the judge agreed to hear my motion when I submitted that letter in January. Then, it would appear that it was PO who had the county reps already convinced that difficult child just needed consequences and then she ordered a specific in-home therapist (from the place that advertises they use their own "unique" method of inducing more stress until the family figures out how to handle things better- LOL!!). That was after I'd been told that's all the county would offer and I could get my choice of who to get it thru- she called and made her order first thing the next morning. And, she said it would start in 2 1/2-3 weeks, but this latest incident happened less than a week later.</p><p></p><p>See, she had already told me that "this county will not pay for difficult child to get any more mental health treatment and that they would never pay for Residential Treatment Center (RTC)". The county had not been paying for his mental health treatment , I have (plus private insurance paid by me). She then said that difficult child needed to be in detention and has already told everyone that she's going to tell the judge that. So, what interest could she possibly have in difficult child's mental health records from this place? None. It's not like she's a person who has advocated for him to get treatment, or that she has said she isn't sure what she thinks he needs, she isn't a mental health professional, she was unresponsive to his last psychiatric hospital sw- and if difficult child was sentenced to juvy as she wants, he wouldn't be on probation and she'd be out of the picture and none of it would be her issue.</p><p></p><p>My rear could end up in jail on Monday when I am testifying and announce that I am NOT willing to work with her or her supervisor anymore. I already told the CA that I cringe at the thought of it- and given all I've already said to everyone else, I don't guess anyone will be too shocked.</p><p></p><p>Furthermore- she told difficult child she thought I was over-protective. Well, are they going to give him more priveldges and freedom in detention?</p><p></p><p>And now that I think about it- I sat right in that county meeting the week before this happened and when they said all they would give as a in-home therapist, I asked "ok, and if my son holds a knife to my throat 2 weeks from now, what will happen to him". And in 6 days- that is exactly what he did.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 247049, member: 3699"] The thing is, the PO knew difficult child had been self-harming and knew of a bunch of other stuff going on. She didn't take any steps to help difficult child or me until after the judge agreed to hear my motion when I submitted that letter in January. Then, it would appear that it was PO who had the county reps already convinced that difficult child just needed consequences and then she ordered a specific in-home therapist (from the place that advertises they use their own "unique" method of inducing more stress until the family figures out how to handle things better- LOL!!). That was after I'd been told that's all the county would offer and I could get my choice of who to get it thru- she called and made her order first thing the next morning. And, she said it would start in 2 1/2-3 weeks, but this latest incident happened less than a week later. See, she had already told me that "this county will not pay for difficult child to get any more mental health treatment and that they would never pay for Residential Treatment Center (RTC)". The county had not been paying for his mental health treatment , I have (plus private insurance paid by me). She then said that difficult child needed to be in detention and has already told everyone that she's going to tell the judge that. So, what interest could she possibly have in difficult child's mental health records from this place? None. It's not like she's a person who has advocated for him to get treatment, or that she has said she isn't sure what she thinks he needs, she isn't a mental health professional, she was unresponsive to his last psychiatric hospital sw- and if difficult child was sentenced to juvy as she wants, he wouldn't be on probation and she'd be out of the picture and none of it would be her issue. My rear could end up in jail on Monday when I am testifying and announce that I am NOT willing to work with her or her supervisor anymore. I already told the CA that I cringe at the thought of it- and given all I've already said to everyone else, I don't guess anyone will be too shocked. Furthermore- she told difficult child she thought I was over-protective. Well, are they going to give him more priveldges and freedom in detention? And now that I think about it- I sat right in that county meeting the week before this happened and when they said all they would give as a in-home therapist, I asked "ok, and if my son holds a knife to my throat 2 weeks from now, what will happen to him". And in 6 days- that is exactly what he did. [/QUOTE]
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