Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Substance Abuse
update
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 758430" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Trying</p><p></p><p>Copa's post was worth 2 stars and if it would let me I would have given it TWO!</p><p></p><p>Your son needs to get uncomfortable, real uncomfortable!! That and only that, will drive HIM to change. It is truly nothing you can say and nothing you can do.</p><p></p><p>This is all on him. He is capable of making the change. He is capable of more than you think, trust me on this.</p><p></p><p>My son did not start to change until I turned my back on him. I was so, so very tired of the games. He now says that I disowned him. My husband/his dad was already done. I too, was hanging on. I know that you don't know me at all. But if you did you would know that I have many, many friends. I bring people together. I am a fun loving, fun living person. I find joy in so many things. I am a very positive minded person.</p><p></p><p>I am not the type of person that anyone would think would EVER disown their own child. The one that I love more than life. But I did.</p><p></p><p>I had literally tried everything else before I was able to do that. I think that you have tried everything else too. I do hope that you are ready to get really tough. Until you do this will not end unfortunately. I can guarantee that. The next time he calls you, you need to tell him to "figure it out".</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 758430, member: 15032"] Trying Copa's post was worth 2 stars and if it would let me I would have given it TWO! Your son needs to get uncomfortable, real uncomfortable!! That and only that, will drive HIM to change. It is truly nothing you can say and nothing you can do. This is all on him. He is capable of making the change. He is capable of more than you think, trust me on this. My son did not start to change until I turned my back on him. I was so, so very tired of the games. He now says that I disowned him. My husband/his dad was already done. I too, was hanging on. I know that you don't know me at all. But if you did you would know that I have many, many friends. I bring people together. I am a fun loving, fun living person. I find joy in so many things. I am a very positive minded person. I am not the type of person that anyone would think would EVER disown their own child. The one that I love more than life. But I did. I had literally tried everything else before I was able to do that. I think that you have tried everything else too. I do hope that you are ready to get really tough. Until you do this will not end unfortunately. I can guarantee that. The next time he calls you, you need to tell him to "figure it out". [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Substance Abuse
update
Top