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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 443289" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>I posted in another post - about this that I believe the Anthony's will move. I think (if I may be so bold) that the plan for some time has been SAVE Casey because Caylee is gone. You can't do anything about death. It's final. Caylee as sad as it is, is gone, she's not coming back, no way, no how. I said this to Janet in private a month ago, and I'll say it here at the point of sounding harsh and very real - The Anthony's knew Caylee for two years. Two wonderful years to get to know and love a beautiful little girl. They have known Cayce for twenty six years. That is their flesh and blood. Their daughter. Right or wrong there is a bond there. YOU may not understand it, you may not agree with it, you may not be able to ever feel it. But in a family that has a need to survive at all costs? They just did. When you are standing OUTSIDE of a life and death struggle for your family it is VERY easy to say what you would or wouldn't do. It is very easy to be complacent and judgemental and KNOW without doubt what you will and won't do. But when you are put in a situation that says DEATH or EVERYTHING ELSE that can throw YOU and your morals under the bus? Everything else becomes very unimportant. YOU and I can say we'd know for sure, but I've been there. I can tell you I'd stand on my convictions, but if it came to bending for the life of my child? I won't make those convictions. Everything else? Absolutely. The life of my children? Except for my soul? I will only say I won't say until it happens. That's as honest as I can be. </p><p></p><p>As far as hating her? klmno - WHY? People get away with murder every day. Every day people get away with crimes, and they think they have won something by being so smart. Two schools of thought on that. For the people that HAVE a conscious: YOU NEVER really get away with anything when you cheat. Of course you cheat, you get away with the deed, and your own conscience nags at you over and over and over because you know that not only did you do wrong, (strike one) but (strike two) NOW you know you cheated and did wrong by not coming clean and (strike three) maybe someone else knows and (strike four) Eventually this stuff comes back to bite you so you worry and worry and if you are religious(strike five) GOD will make you attone for it. So it wasn't really worth trying to GET AWAY with it after all. ONE thing leads to so many - that had you just done one thing - and fessed up? It would be over - not five times the trouble. So you never really get away with anything - and there's YOU worring about HER getting away with something - LET IT GO. She got away with NOTHING. It's a matter of time. HER time - NOT yours do not waste it. Spend it doing something GOOD. </p><p></p><p>School of thought two - IF you have NO conscious----You cheat, you get away with it, and you move on. (strike one) PEOPLE loathe you, they eventually mark you as a liar, they will never trust you, you get a reputation, and as time goes on - people don't want to be around you or actually want to harm you or will harm you. (strike two) being religious I think GOD will make you attone for it. - and there's YOU worring about HER getting away with something - LET IT GO. She got away with NOTHING. It's a matter of time. HER time. -NOT yours do not waste it. Spend it doing something GOOD. </p><p></p><p>Caylee in a manner of speaking HAS justice already. She will never hurt again, she will never suffer any more, she may not have gotten earthly justice ----but if there is justice at all? It's knowing that a precious very innocent child was taken. Children never belong to us, they are loaned to us to raise, to love to teach. Then they're returned. However she got to heaven is anyones guess. For Caylee her eternity of happiness begun years ago. For Caycee she thinks her freedom is just beginning, and what she's going to find is a an eternity of reminders no matter where she goes to or moves. Her lies will follow her for eternity. One child went to heaven and one is about to begin living hell on earth because there are so many people that aren't capable of forgiveness. I think she'll have enough hatred without adding ours. We have enough problems to conted to with our own difficult children without borrowing from someone elses. And if we are true to our words here -aren't we always asking the outside world to understand our kids? If we're so quick to condemn Caycee for what she did - it kinda puts a bad light on all dysfunctional families in as much as no one has yet come forward and said "Counseling may have helped them had they gone years ago." </p><p></p><p>This really is an opportunity being missed ----to get funding for agencies out there trying to get help for mental illnesses - even though it was never established that there was mental illness - NO ONE can deny there is serious dysfunction in that entire family not? I could be wrong......it's just a guess. But I don't see this family abandoning each other....not after all this.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 443289, member: 4964"] I posted in another post - about this that I believe the Anthony's will move. I think (if I may be so bold) that the plan for some time has been SAVE Casey because Caylee is gone. You can't do anything about death. It's final. Caylee as sad as it is, is gone, she's not coming back, no way, no how. I said this to Janet in private a month ago, and I'll say it here at the point of sounding harsh and very real - The Anthony's knew Caylee for two years. Two wonderful years to get to know and love a beautiful little girl. They have known Cayce for twenty six years. That is their flesh and blood. Their daughter. Right or wrong there is a bond there. YOU may not understand it, you may not agree with it, you may not be able to ever feel it. But in a family that has a need to survive at all costs? They just did. When you are standing OUTSIDE of a life and death struggle for your family it is VERY easy to say what you would or wouldn't do. It is very easy to be complacent and judgemental and KNOW without doubt what you will and won't do. But when you are put in a situation that says DEATH or EVERYTHING ELSE that can throw YOU and your morals under the bus? Everything else becomes very unimportant. YOU and I can say we'd know for sure, but I've been there. I can tell you I'd stand on my convictions, but if it came to bending for the life of my child? I won't make those convictions. Everything else? Absolutely. The life of my children? Except for my soul? I will only say I won't say until it happens. That's as honest as I can be. As far as hating her? klmno - WHY? People get away with murder every day. Every day people get away with crimes, and they think they have won something by being so smart. Two schools of thought on that. For the people that HAVE a conscious: YOU NEVER really get away with anything when you cheat. Of course you cheat, you get away with the deed, and your own conscience nags at you over and over and over because you know that not only did you do wrong, (strike one) but (strike two) NOW you know you cheated and did wrong by not coming clean and (strike three) maybe someone else knows and (strike four) Eventually this stuff comes back to bite you so you worry and worry and if you are religious(strike five) GOD will make you attone for it. So it wasn't really worth trying to GET AWAY with it after all. ONE thing leads to so many - that had you just done one thing - and fessed up? It would be over - not five times the trouble. So you never really get away with anything - and there's YOU worring about HER getting away with something - LET IT GO. She got away with NOTHING. It's a matter of time. HER time - NOT yours do not waste it. Spend it doing something GOOD. School of thought two - IF you have NO conscious----You cheat, you get away with it, and you move on. (strike one) PEOPLE loathe you, they eventually mark you as a liar, they will never trust you, you get a reputation, and as time goes on - people don't want to be around you or actually want to harm you or will harm you. (strike two) being religious I think GOD will make you attone for it. - and there's YOU worring about HER getting away with something - LET IT GO. She got away with NOTHING. It's a matter of time. HER time. -NOT yours do not waste it. Spend it doing something GOOD. Caylee in a manner of speaking HAS justice already. She will never hurt again, she will never suffer any more, she may not have gotten earthly justice ----but if there is justice at all? It's knowing that a precious very innocent child was taken. Children never belong to us, they are loaned to us to raise, to love to teach. Then they're returned. However she got to heaven is anyones guess. For Caylee her eternity of happiness begun years ago. For Caycee she thinks her freedom is just beginning, and what she's going to find is a an eternity of reminders no matter where she goes to or moves. Her lies will follow her for eternity. One child went to heaven and one is about to begin living hell on earth because there are so many people that aren't capable of forgiveness. I think she'll have enough hatred without adding ours. We have enough problems to conted to with our own difficult children without borrowing from someone elses. And if we are true to our words here -aren't we always asking the outside world to understand our kids? If we're so quick to condemn Caycee for what she did - it kinda puts a bad light on all dysfunctional families in as much as no one has yet come forward and said "Counseling may have helped them had they gone years ago." This really is an opportunity being missed ----to get funding for agencies out there trying to get help for mental illnesses - even though it was never established that there was mental illness - NO ONE can deny there is serious dysfunction in that entire family not? I could be wrong......it's just a guess. But I don't see this family abandoning each other....not after all this. [/QUOTE]
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