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<blockquote data-quote="Ktllc" data-source="post: 435099" data-attributes="member: 11847"><p>The French siciety is very "close" and full of invisible but very real walls. The code of behavior is highly regulated and complicated. No one will teach it to you but doors will certainly close if you don't follow it. On top of it, you live in a small village! I think you understand your situation very good: you will always be the outsider. It is something you have to think about and either accept it or move on. I know it is harsh, but I would not advise fighting against windmills... Your plate is full enough as it is. You really mention 3 issues: adhd, village life and a father for your son. Maybe, it would help to prioritize them (you might want to add money). Try to list them seperatly and then link them. To give you an example of what I mean: we don't really like where we live right now but that is where we make our livelyhood. Moving is simply not an option for us right now. And whatever you come up with, don't let one idiot neighbor influence you. Look at the whole picture (the good and the bad).</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ktllc, post: 435099, member: 11847"] The French siciety is very "close" and full of invisible but very real walls. The code of behavior is highly regulated and complicated. No one will teach it to you but doors will certainly close if you don't follow it. On top of it, you live in a small village! I think you understand your situation very good: you will always be the outsider. It is something you have to think about and either accept it or move on. I know it is harsh, but I would not advise fighting against windmills... Your plate is full enough as it is. You really mention 3 issues: adhd, village life and a father for your son. Maybe, it would help to prioritize them (you might want to add money). Try to list them seperatly and then link them. To give you an example of what I mean: we don't really like where we live right now but that is where we make our livelyhood. Moving is simply not an option for us right now. And whatever you come up with, don't let one idiot neighbor influence you. Look at the whole picture (the good and the bad). [/QUOTE]
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