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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 754033" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Oh, please don't go to his place again. His threat is dangerous. Whether he is using or not, and he probably won't tell you if he is, he is acting mean and threatening. For years we have not seen Kay other than in public places that are crowded with people. For safety reasons. Be safe.</p><p></p><p>I am glad you have a kind son. You know then what a normal adult is like. You do not have to explain yourself or own anything to your drug addict son. He is not clear headed and will only throw anything rational that you say back in your face. You owe him nothing while he behaves like this. Your love from a distance and prayers are all you can offer him right now. </p><p></p><p>You are clearly a loving person and your son is an adult. He is the only person responsible for his life choices. Nobody else. He blames you because it makes him feel better, but his words are untrue. Don't give his false accusations an answer. He won't listen anyway. And you don't need to respond to lies.</p><p></p><p>This also goes for your daughter.</p><p></p><p>Please remember than addiction is an illness that affects every aspect of the addicts life, even if he is currently not using. Addicts have personality problems and need therapy. This includes sober addicts....they are still addicts.</p><p></p><p>Please take good care of yourself and maybe try to focus on your kind loved ones and friends, your hobbies, the things you love to do and if God is in your life lean on Him. It is okay to lean. Maybe it's time to put yourself first.</p><p></p><p>I send you blessings and hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 754033, member: 23706"] Oh, please don't go to his place again. His threat is dangerous. Whether he is using or not, and he probably won't tell you if he is, he is acting mean and threatening. For years we have not seen Kay other than in public places that are crowded with people. For safety reasons. Be safe. I am glad you have a kind son. You know then what a normal adult is like. You do not have to explain yourself or own anything to your drug addict son. He is not clear headed and will only throw anything rational that you say back in your face. You owe him nothing while he behaves like this. Your love from a distance and prayers are all you can offer him right now. You are clearly a loving person and your son is an adult. He is the only person responsible for his life choices. Nobody else. He blames you because it makes him feel better, but his words are untrue. Don't give his false accusations an answer. He won't listen anyway. And you don't need to respond to lies. This also goes for your daughter. Please remember than addiction is an illness that affects every aspect of the addicts life, even if he is currently not using. Addicts have personality problems and need therapy. This includes sober addicts....they are still addicts. Please take good care of yourself and maybe try to focus on your kind loved ones and friends, your hobbies, the things you love to do and if God is in your life lean on Him. It is okay to lean. Maybe it's time to put yourself first. I send you blessings and hugs. [/QUOTE]
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