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<blockquote data-quote="Triedntrue" data-source="post: 748868" data-attributes="member: 21499"><p>They all try for the same things. I refused a while back to help him get a vehicle because he has so many violations and he destroys them. I have slowly tried to stop helping (enabling ) him but keep getting drawn in. I blocked phone and text. He used email. I blocked email he used messenger. I blocked messenger he figured out some way to create false numbers he even called me with a bunch of letters. I traded phones with my husband and he doesn't have that number. Some things have been succesful. He has a job and rides a bike to work. He ubers if he has to and rides a bus if stuck. The less i help the more he figures out. I feel guilty i think we all do but i keep telling myself that he is an adult. His two younger brothers never ask for help and are self sufficient. He does have a mental illness but i tried for years to get him treatment and thats not going to happen until he figures out he needs it. I have destroyed my relationship with one of my other sons and partially with the other. I am going to focus on me and my grandchildren and hubby for now. I hope you keep strong and realize they have to learn to take care of themselves.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Triedntrue, post: 748868, member: 21499"] They all try for the same things. I refused a while back to help him get a vehicle because he has so many violations and he destroys them. I have slowly tried to stop helping (enabling ) him but keep getting drawn in. I blocked phone and text. He used email. I blocked email he used messenger. I blocked messenger he figured out some way to create false numbers he even called me with a bunch of letters. I traded phones with my husband and he doesn't have that number. Some things have been succesful. He has a job and rides a bike to work. He ubers if he has to and rides a bus if stuck. The less i help the more he figures out. I feel guilty i think we all do but i keep telling myself that he is an adult. His two younger brothers never ask for help and are self sufficient. He does have a mental illness but i tried for years to get him treatment and thats not going to happen until he figures out he needs it. I have destroyed my relationship with one of my other sons and partially with the other. I am going to focus on me and my grandchildren and hubby for now. I hope you keep strong and realize they have to learn to take care of themselves. [/QUOTE]
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