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Very difficult parent/teacher meeting with easy child/difficult child
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 651470" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>File a formal complaint. They were abusive not just to your child but also to you and that is totally unacceptable. They are ignoring his IEP and making unfair accusations and they are way off base. It is time for you to figure out how to stand up and leave when people are being rude this way. Tell them quietly that you will return when they are prepared to behave like adults and not immature brats and leave the room with your child when ANYONE treats you this way. Use the flight instinct and just LEAVE when they are this inappropriate. It is the only way to treat them as you could not have said anything they would listen to anyway. Insist that someone who will stand up for your child be there at all future meetings with these women. flat out refuse to meet with them if they will not behave in a professional and appropriate manner. Period. end of story.</p><p></p><p>Go to the principal AND call the state dept of ed and file FORMAL complaints of verbal abuse. They violated his rights by ignoring his handicaps, period. Threaten to sue the school and the teachers for this - they WILL start to be scared of YOU, which is what you need.</p><p></p><p>Why did you not find an advocate? I think I sent you some resources to find one. Make it a priority to find one and don't have meetings with-o your advocate, ever!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 651470, member: 1233"] File a formal complaint. They were abusive not just to your child but also to you and that is totally unacceptable. They are ignoring his IEP and making unfair accusations and they are way off base. It is time for you to figure out how to stand up and leave when people are being rude this way. Tell them quietly that you will return when they are prepared to behave like adults and not immature brats and leave the room with your child when ANYONE treats you this way. Use the flight instinct and just LEAVE when they are this inappropriate. It is the only way to treat them as you could not have said anything they would listen to anyway. Insist that someone who will stand up for your child be there at all future meetings with these women. flat out refuse to meet with them if they will not behave in a professional and appropriate manner. Period. end of story. Go to the principal AND call the state dept of ed and file FORMAL complaints of verbal abuse. They violated his rights by ignoring his handicaps, period. Threaten to sue the school and the teachers for this - they WILL start to be scared of YOU, which is what you need. Why did you not find an advocate? I think I sent you some resources to find one. Make it a priority to find one and don't have meetings with-o your advocate, ever! [/QUOTE]
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