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<blockquote data-quote="DavidWH" data-source="post: 108537" data-attributes="member: 4398"><p>Janna You make great points... and I would love to tell him what he needs to do.. </p><p></p><p>First.. honestly I do not know what else he needs to do....</p><p></p><p>I tell him.. my concerns about school suspensions 12 to 18 times a year, being evicted 3 times in a year and a half and losing 2 jobs due to all that has gone on, and explain Daddy is getting help too... even brin up this site and you wonderful folks! (getting support and advice)</p><p></p><p>With my Son... he is smart as a whip.. my fear is IF I tell him.. you do this and you do that.. and you will come home... </p><p></p><p>HE WILL DO IT</p><p></p><p>but will it be real??</p><p></p><p>I am very proud about is upgrade in a level at Residential Treatment Center (RTC)... not because he got it, but becuase he got it SOOOO long after he was there... most kids get it with in a month of being placed... I told him.. to me it means more it took you this long.. becuase you EARNED this and I have no question in my mind that you really earned it... becuase you worked at it...</p><p></p><p> after the first few months of fighting the system ... he may see his way was a losing battle ( did not say the last sentence to him)</p><p></p><p>He called me tonight after my first post.. here.... even though he could have called his Uncle (which he asked if he could today since he saw me today!!) he said, Daddy I do not want to spend the whole phone call on this.. but please tell me what you want... I simply told him.. Justin, you have not even been on a home pass yet, do you think for Dad you can do that and lets try this with one another before you ask? How Do you know what it will be like, yes the 12 hour pass will go great I am sure.. but you need to do more home passes lets see how they go... </p><p></p><p>Sorry guys... (gals) I know what I need to do... but man it does not make it easy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DavidWH, post: 108537, member: 4398"] Janna You make great points... and I would love to tell him what he needs to do.. First.. honestly I do not know what else he needs to do.... I tell him.. my concerns about school suspensions 12 to 18 times a year, being evicted 3 times in a year and a half and losing 2 jobs due to all that has gone on, and explain Daddy is getting help too... even brin up this site and you wonderful folks! (getting support and advice) With my Son... he is smart as a whip.. my fear is IF I tell him.. you do this and you do that.. and you will come home... HE WILL DO IT but will it be real?? I am very proud about is upgrade in a level at Residential Treatment Center (RTC)... not because he got it, but becuase he got it SOOOO long after he was there... most kids get it with in a month of being placed... I told him.. to me it means more it took you this long.. becuase you EARNED this and I have no question in my mind that you really earned it... becuase you worked at it... after the first few months of fighting the system ... he may see his way was a losing battle ( did not say the last sentence to him) He called me tonight after my first post.. here.... even though he could have called his Uncle (which he asked if he could today since he saw me today!!) he said, Daddy I do not want to spend the whole phone call on this.. but please tell me what you want... I simply told him.. Justin, you have not even been on a home pass yet, do you think for Dad you can do that and lets try this with one another before you ask? How Do you know what it will be like, yes the 12 hour pass will go great I am sure.. but you need to do more home passes lets see how they go... Sorry guys... (gals) I know what I need to do... but man it does not make it easy [/QUOTE]
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