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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 621656" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>Of course you have right to make that decision but may I suggest that you "sleep on it" before writing/mailing the letter to him? Although we don't have the poster child for recovery I believed that when he was in rehab and had consequences it was the choice of the administration. There were times when I cut my visits a little short if there was a hint of attitude but overall, in my humble opinion only, I wanted him to recognize that he still had family support. Obviously the administration had every right to deny family visitation which happened a couple of times when the GFGness came out unit wide. by the way, when he was in jail I never set foot inside that building. I guess what I am saying is that your family...your difficult child...your rules. on the other hand, some of us found that it was better not to stack family punishment on top of the facility punishment after taking time to chill.</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry you guys are where you are right now but very sincerely hope that he will be one of the success stories. Hugs DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 621656, member: 35"] Of course you have right to make that decision but may I suggest that you "sleep on it" before writing/mailing the letter to him? Although we don't have the poster child for recovery I believed that when he was in rehab and had consequences it was the choice of the administration. There were times when I cut my visits a little short if there was a hint of attitude but overall, in my humble opinion only, I wanted him to recognize that he still had family support. Obviously the administration had every right to deny family visitation which happened a couple of times when the GFGness came out unit wide. by the way, when he was in jail I never set foot inside that building. I guess what I am saying is that your family...your difficult child...your rules. on the other hand, some of us found that it was better not to stack family punishment on top of the facility punishment after taking time to chill. I'm sorry you guys are where you are right now but very sincerely hope that he will be one of the success stories. Hugs DDD [/QUOTE]
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