I've been using pure lavender oil in massage, baths & in the bedroom, with N now for a few years, and it definitely works. In fact, she is wanting a lavender plant for her room, so she can rub the leaves cause she loves the smell 
another good oil for children, which calms them down is chamomile, but that is much more expensive to buy. N loves chamomile tea, so I let her have a drink before bed
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difficult child - female, 6 years, ODD (not formally diagnosed) suspect: Sensory Dysfunction and/or ADD: no medications
ME - 31, psoriatic arthritis & depression - Prozac, 40mg, and a cocktail or arthritis drugs
married to husband for 8 years. husband learning not to react to difficult child on every occasion, and getting much better /importthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif
We live in Scotland, and there is virtually no support available
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"Don't you worry time's a healer. Before you know it you'll be through it. Just believing keeps you breathing. Keep on building trust the process" - Trust the Process, John Taylor 1995
"Everythings gonna be alright... one day at a time" - Anon, John Taylor, 1997
