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<blockquote data-quote="Suz" data-source="post: 273938" data-attributes="member: 29"><p>Nomad, I think this is a very sad scenario. It seems short-sighted and somewhat insensitive to exclude difficult child from the wedding party and then have her hustled in and out of the wedding, too. </p><p> </p><p>Ok, so the bride doesn't want her as a bridesmaid...not nice, but then give her something else to do. difficult child could stand by the guest book and smile and ask people to sign it. Or she could stand by the table where people put wedding gifts and make sure they are stacked properly. She seems to "rise to the occasion" so giving her a job to do might help her feel special enough to reduce the possibility of melodrama and also keep her occupied.</p><p> </p><p>I had a tiny wedding...bride, groom, best man, matron of honor (my sister in law). That's it. I didn't want my friends to feel excluded so I gave them each a small bouquet of flowers so everyone would know they were special to the occasion even though they weren't directly involved in it.</p><p> </p><p>Suz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suz, post: 273938, member: 29"] Nomad, I think this is a very sad scenario. It seems short-sighted and somewhat insensitive to exclude difficult child from the wedding party and then have her hustled in and out of the wedding, too. Ok, so the bride doesn't want her as a bridesmaid...not nice, but then give her something else to do. difficult child could stand by the guest book and smile and ask people to sign it. Or she could stand by the table where people put wedding gifts and make sure they are stacked properly. She seems to "rise to the occasion" so giving her a job to do might help her feel special enough to reduce the possibility of melodrama and also keep her occupied. I had a tiny wedding...bride, groom, best man, matron of honor (my sister in law). That's it. I didn't want my friends to feel excluded so I gave them each a small bouquet of flowers so everyone would know they were special to the occasion even though they weren't directly involved in it. Suz [/QUOTE]
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