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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 274196" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>Witz, this is true. Or can be true. As I have seen it in some families. But even with all of the gfgdom in mine, including extended family........no one would <strong>ever</strong> exclude someone from such a major family event. Bad behavior by a difficult child may be "handled" or taken in stride with understanding....whichever was needed. But they would <strong>not</strong> be excluded.</p><p> </p><p>We as parents try to teach our kids tolerance for others differences. This most especially includes their own family. Not everyone can be a easy child. And the vast majorily of difficult children did not ask to have their dxes. They are as real an illness as any other. And while we grumble about others being prejudice against our kids for their dxes......how could we tolerate it in our own families?</p><p> </p><p>I am <strong>not saying</strong> this is what you meant. (cuz I don't think you meant it that way at all) I'm saying <strong>this is how I look at it</strong> because this is the way I was taught to look at such things. And this is how I raised my kids as well. </p><p> </p><p>I'm not saying that an out of control difficult child should be let run amuk, either. But one who is trying, even if they're struggling, should be included.</p><p> </p><p>Hugs</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 274196, member: 84"] Witz, this is true. Or can be true. As I have seen it in some families. But even with all of the gfgdom in mine, including extended family........no one would [B]ever[/B] exclude someone from such a major family event. Bad behavior by a difficult child may be "handled" or taken in stride with understanding....whichever was needed. But they would [B]not[/B] be excluded. We as parents try to teach our kids tolerance for others differences. This most especially includes their own family. Not everyone can be a easy child. And the vast majorily of difficult children did not ask to have their dxes. They are as real an illness as any other. And while we grumble about others being prejudice against our kids for their dxes......how could we tolerate it in our own families? I am [B]not saying[/B] this is what you meant. (cuz I don't think you meant it that way at all) I'm saying [B]this is how I look at it[/B] because this is the way I was taught to look at such things. And this is how I raised my kids as well. I'm not saying that an out of control difficult child should be let run amuk, either. But one who is trying, even if they're struggling, should be included. Hugs [/QUOTE]
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