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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember1" data-source="post: 758727" data-attributes="member: 23706"><p>Hi. I am very sorry but your son sadly does not want to get sober yet and should never have a car as long as he drinks. He could drive drunk and kill himself or other innocent people. I would never give him cash. We never gave Kay cash. Ever. She just could not be trusted with money. She would buy drugs. If we wanted to buy her something we did so directly with the person we were buying from. Yet I do not recommend buying him anything. We did it too much and it did not help her.</p><p></p><p>Your son can take a bus or train.</p><p></p><p>I would not talk to him if he was badgering you for a car. You do not owe him an explanation about not paying for things anymore. He will throw a tantrum if you explain. Just don't give him anything and he will get it.</p><p></p><p>I am cheering for you to be able to do this now. You have been mistreated and abused long enough. Time to detach from your son's drama in my opinion.</p><p></p><p>Prayers and hugs !!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember1, post: 758727, member: 23706"] Hi. I am very sorry but your son sadly does not want to get sober yet and should never have a car as long as he drinks. He could drive drunk and kill himself or other innocent people. I would never give him cash. We never gave Kay cash. Ever. She just could not be trusted with money. She would buy drugs. If we wanted to buy her something we did so directly with the person we were buying from. Yet I do not recommend buying him anything. We did it too much and it did not help her. Your son can take a bus or train. I would not talk to him if he was badgering you for a car. You do not owe him an explanation about not paying for things anymore. He will throw a tantrum if you explain. Just don't give him anything and he will get it. I am cheering for you to be able to do this now. You have been mistreated and abused long enough. Time to detach from your son's drama in my opinion. Prayers and hugs !!! [/QUOTE]
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